i'm not saying that i'm ThaT attractive or whatever, but i really wish i could find a gal who will ask me out someday. I've been alone (without a girlfriend) for years. I just wanna love a girl and stop pretending to be happy in a relationship with my bf. Just why is it so hard to know if that person is a les or not??
2006-08-02 06:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by pinkBDana 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
have some tee shirts printed up saying"don't ask,I'm gay"
2006-08-02 06:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling, I just came out of the closet recently, no more bs, and all of a sudden, it seems like all these guys want to ask me out, or I go to the club and all these guys are trying to bone or whatever, but where I live at it's real hard to find a girl who's serious about what she wants and stuff. Right now I'm in school, and yeah being single has it's advantages, but sometimes it's tough, I do wish I had somebody by my side sometimes, too. I got to an all girls school, so most of the girls here are les or bi, but then some just say they are, and the rest only want sex. It's hard.
2006-08-02 13:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, getting rid of the BOYfriend is a good start. Start hanging out at places frequented by the GLBT community. Coffee shops, gay bars and clubs. Also, advertise! Get something saying that you're into chicks. Also, if you find someone that you find interesting, start a conversation with them and see where it goes from there.
2006-08-02 15:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all as long as you have a boyfriend you aren't exactly going to be looked at by lesbians. I would suggest that you get out and get familiar with your lesbian community. Yahoo Groups offers a good place to start! There are many local lesbian email groups that have get togethers other than at the local gay bar. My area does and we do things like family outtings for those of us with kids among other things! Start with Yahoo Groups.
2006-08-02 13:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... tell dat guy dat u wanna date a girl... i fink he'll stop asking u out then...
for da fact dat u wanna date a girl, try meeting new ppl & getting to noe them... but les girls arent easy to find... so good luck =)
personally, i think i m kinda in a relationship with a girl... not dat we r going out or anything... but somewut intimate... i m not sure if dat is really wut i want.. i m finking dat i want to call it to an end
also, no girl ask u out might be due to the fact dat u r with a bf, so dat might keep the girls off from u
aniways, good luck, i hope u'll find ur love
2006-08-02 14:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by NaNa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your self where lebians are. Network. Go to bars, gay lesbian centers, gay events, look on your local craigslist and maybe put an add up.
2006-08-02 14:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to places were Lesbians hang out. Gay, bars, coffee shops...ect.
2006-08-02 13:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by kiranni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, maybe you can ask them out, they probably think the same thing about you, but why do u want a girl? eww..
2006-08-02 13:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by I_LOVE_VICTORIAS SECRET 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one confused little man.
2006-08-02 13:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have a bf?
2006-08-02 13:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by bretto24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋