So i get home from a weekend with my best friend and find out my husband says he is leaving me, i'm ok with it. Saw it coming pretty sure he is gay. but how can i make it not hurt so much???
2006-08-02 06:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by beeb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good and positive friends and family help. Trashing your ex only gives you bad vibes. Try to keep busy. Flings don't help. They just make you feel cheap. If you still have a platonic relationship with your ex, it's good but be careful not to rely on him. Try and find support elsewhere. Chin up. Take your time. Let yourself greave or else it will sneak up on you later. Give yourself the permission to feel your emotions. It won't be easy but you have to go through it. It WILL get better. Try to think positive thoughts. It will attract positive energy. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 07:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to put you down, but only ignorant idiots think that any divorce can be easy. There is no winner in a divorce. Just hang in there. It gets worse before the end.
2006-08-02 13:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some valium.
Seriously, you can't dodge away the pain. You need to go through the pain to get over it. Just deal with it one day at a time, and always remind yourself that it's not your fault in any way.
Also, meditate each day and see a therapist if you can.
2006-08-02 13:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy, busy, busy. It's going to hurt, there's no getting around that. Also seek therapy. It helps. Good luck and hang in there. You are stronger than you think.
2006-08-02 13:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy, get on with your life, and realize that there is a tomorrow. The pain will eventually subside, dear one.
2006-08-02 13:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no divorce is easy, u just have to go through as strong as u can
2006-08-02 13:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant... Time will heal your pain. A night out on the town might also help! :)
Hugs((()))
2006-08-02 13:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, hang in there
2006-08-02 13:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋