I got my GF pregnant. and we are both 15!
We have been having sex for 2 years now.
Help!
2006-08-02 06:17:57 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
woo! false alarm!
2006-08-02 06:42:56 · update #1
Well first of all, you shouldn't even have sex at fifteen! None-the-less thirteen! Well you should both keep the baby because it was both of your faults. And don't leave her hangin'. It'll just make it harder on her.
2006-08-02 09:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 7⤋
Well, I think you should NOT abandon her and even if you break up support her no matter what. You stay in high school and she should untill shes like 7 months. Get a job and save up. And after high school by an apartment. And whatever you do dont get an abortion or give her up. Her mother or father or your parents could help but if they are completly upset and refuse she should go to an aunt or someone like that. I'm sincerly sorry this has happened. This might be a good thing, babys are great and im sure you will be happy in the end. Best of luck to you.
2006-08-02 06:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1, talk to your parents and her parents...
Step 2, educate yourselves about what is involved in raising a child. Imagine yourself only getting 2 hours of sleep each night and your gf dropping out of school.
Step 3, evaluate the resources you have available (like how much your parents or hers or other family members are willing to help)
Step 4, you and your gf have a very serious talk, probably with all parents present, and decide if you can raise this baby or should contact an adoption agency.
Step 5, you don't repeat the process until you are married and can support your wife.
2006-08-02 06:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everything else we do there are consequences and in this case you have major ones. I'd like to think with all the sex education they're giving in school young people would be able to make better choices. Apparently not. Young man you have major consequences here and you have to accept them. I'd advise you to talk to your parents about this. You can all sit down, have it out and decide what to do eventually. At 13 you should have been thinking about getting a proper education and making something of yourself not thinking about sex. You need to grow up and in a hurry too, because if you guys decide to keep this baby, you are going to have major responsibilities. I seriously hope you learn something from this.
2006-08-02 06:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bale on her at all!!!! You need to be there for her and the baby, know that you are never fully prepared, buy lots of ice cream, but make sure she eats alot of healthy foods too but dont be controlling about it cuz it gets annoying, dont say anything about how much shes eating or about her wieght cuz she will most likey get mad. Go to doc appointments w/ her,be in the delivery room w/ her if she will let you that will be the one best things you will ever experince, go baby shopping w/ her. This will be hard at times and you might wanna just quit and leave her but if you leave her it will be harder for her to have to go though everything alone so stay w/ her no matter what happens!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 06:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by Paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have never had sex to begin with because sex is for ADULTS not kids...you are a kid.
Tell your parents
Get a job
Get a house
Get a car
Get medical insurance
Stop having sex till you become a grown man which is like 4 years from now.
2006-08-02 06:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your childhood days are over and this is sad. There are so many different contraceptives out there. Go talk to your parents and to her parents. Face your music, how could you , you just ruined your life etc, then explain how you feel and whether or not you want to keep the baby or put it up for adoption. Be responsible now. I hope you have good parents that love and support you. The same for your girlfriend.
2006-08-02 06:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, too young to worry about this? why did u do this to ur selfs. okay the problem is here now . Do you feel u can handle this. Its a big responsibility for the both of u? There r programs such as public aid, wic (free formula for the baby). think first before you make a decision.
2006-08-02 06:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just walk out of her life. That will hurt her really badly. Call her a lot and talk to her and take her out some. Even if you want to break up with her you still need to be there for her and the baby.
2006-08-02 06:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by C.A.T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first and most important u better stick by her thought thick and thin. not like all those other guys who r just in it for the fun then when something like this happens leave. get a part time job and hope to God that both of u have supportive parents.
2006-08-02 06:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by rebelrider951 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive and when the time comes be the best dad that you can be. You are young, but things will turn out ok. Seek lots of support and help from your family too. You will need them on your side.
2006-08-02 06:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by peachy4995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋