I've liked this guy for almost 3 years and he's now single and looking. I still like him, and others say he likes me, but i don't know for sure. The only bad thing is that he would want sex if we made it 5 months. I don't really know what to do. I really like him but i don't know if i'm ready for sex.
2006-08-02 06:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by coolgurlmolly 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i'm 14 almost 15 and he's 16
2006-08-02 06:15:22 · update #1
i don't just like him for the sex
2006-08-02 06:21:43 · update #2
Go out with him but only if you feel strong enough to tell him no when he asks. Respect your body. if he is pressuring you and you are not ready then he doesn't really love you. Sex is about love not just 2 horny people. If he can't respect you enough to wait then dump his ***. 2/3 girls who had sex wish they would have waited so think about that. You always remember your first time so wait until it will really mean something. Is this the guy you want to be the father of your children. Will he support you if you get pregnant. Protection isn't flawless so be prepared to get prenant. Is he the kinda guy who would run.
2006-08-02 06:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys out there that who want to wait too... and I think that you should wait. Sex brings on so many unnecessary problems especially before marriage. Look at all the people who are asking for help because they are having sex when they are 14, 15, 16, 17+... Think about it. You dont NEED sex. You need to mature and focus on yourself and making yourself into an educated Lady so that when you do find Mr. Right, he will love you for you Purity, intelligence, and your soul and your mind.
2006-08-02 14:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if all he wants if sex dont go out with him but if you really like him you should tell him and go out with him. Most relationships with people that young don't last for 5 months anyway.
2006-08-02 13:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by C.A.T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it; tell him u like him and give him a chance to be a gentleman. BUT let him know eventualy that you're looking for a real relationship, not one revolving around sex. u've heard that he has sexual relationships, but u've made decisions for yourself and will decide when you want it, not when He wants it. if he wants to get to know you, he'll give u a call. if not, he's not worth it. and if he tries to pressure u later, tell him it's over if he doesn't respect ur decision...
when i was on.. 3rd date w/ my current bf, he already kissed me and it was really sweet and romantic...we were @ the beach, and i told him that i wanted to be a virgin until i'm married and i'm *letting him know* so he can decide what he wants..some guys do want sexual relationships, that's their choice. but i dont' want to be that girl. and he told me he wanted to wait too! his previous gf's had tried, but he didn't feel it was right. anyways, the guy should always respect ur decisions..if he doesn't he is not right for you. we laught that i said it so early on, but these days u have to set your own boundaries, and make sure the guy is Good for you, and you are Good for him. if u do whatever the guy says, u can't always trust he will make good decision for you (vice versa too..there are some girls who are mean too). take care of yourself, and be able to take care of your man....anyone will and should respect that about you.
2006-08-02 13:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right. If he doesnt respect your wishes, you dont deserve him. Try going out with him or dating a few times. If he trys anything that you don't like, dump him. Sorry about your luck. Remember, there are more fish in the see. =]
2006-08-02 14:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Shelby♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he'll wait for you. Don't do anything you don't want to do!! Besides, you're still very young. I'm 23 now and I just got married, trust me when you finally find the right person you'll wish you waited for him.
2006-08-02 13:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it ive been in your position and its a waste of time.I was 14 he was 18 he wanted to and i didn't. He will try to pressure you to and if you don't he will most likely break up with you. Don't put your heart through that hurt. Trust me he broke my heart. Try dating someone your own age.
2006-08-02 13:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by countrygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have sex..You're still very young! and you are definitely not ready for that. Tell him that you don't want to do that.
2006-08-02 13:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by dancegrlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else that doesn't want you for sex... Like me!
2006-08-02 13:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see if he wants 2 go out w/ u ask him
2006-08-02 14:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by sotiedup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋