none? It is such a let down. You get what I call "attention overload"
when you're pregnant and glowing. Then after the baby's three months old, you might as well not even exist. Why so many extremes?
2006-08-02 06:13:22 · 8 answers · asked by .......... 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Simple, the woman is admired and noticed for the life she's carrying. The baby is the center of attention because they are babies; new life. If the baby gets a lot of notice, be thankful. That means the baby isn't ugly.
Part of becoming a parent is knowing that it's not about YOU anymore. It's all about the next generation.
2006-08-02 06:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by auld mom 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean and it really sucks! i mean i didnt really get too much attention when i was pregnant...i spent most of my pregnancy alone....but i did get some extra attention by some friends and family....most told me my whole pregnancy that they couldnt wait to buy the baby an outfit when its born and if i ever needed a babysitter just call bc theyre never busy....well my birthday was just a month after my son was born....i asked prolly 6 people to watch him and no one would...my mom ended up watching him but it was still the point that i couldnt get someone to watch him just that one evening for a few hours!
2006-08-02 13:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by gaigesmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months try not even three minutes i felt so alone in that room after they all followed my baby - it dies down some but not much
2006-08-02 13:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by spoyledmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO I agree completely! I made me so upset my husband and I got pregnant again lol j/k. It does make you feel lonely though when you don't get any attention anymore.
2006-08-02 13:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by mememe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, i guess the baby "steals" all the attention. i think it's normal, just the way it used to be before you were pg.
2006-08-02 13:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the society we live in. People are more interested in the baby.
2006-08-02 13:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is my first baby and so far noone hasn't given me any attention at all.
2006-08-02 13:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it as no attention towards you take it as help for you. they know that you need help becaouse your tired and stressed and just need help. dont feel depressed and lonley its only everyone welcoming the newbie into the world.and trying to help you relax
2006-08-02 13:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by clownluv♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋