tell me some good and bad things about this time in your marriage and if it will work forever and why?
2006-08-02 06:03:34 · 8 answers · asked by flowersandhearts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married for about five years and we have three beautiful daughters. We are going through somewhat of a rough patch right know but i couldn't imagine my life without her. I love being married to her and wouldn't change it for anything. I'm positive we will get through this rough patch and spend the rest of our lives together.
2006-08-02 11:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by polka_freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is always an issue. I will be married five years this Friday. That is the most difficult part of our marriage, we do not fight over money, but we have a difficult time and have had a difficult time combining our incomes and coming up with a budget that will satisfy us both. Right now, we have finally come to the realization that we need to create a budget and seek that budget help from a professional that can show us the best way to afford the things we need and want. Other than that, he is my best friend and has been for the past 5+ years. We laugh, we cry and we have fun together. I think that the process of working together and understanding each others needs is the key to a happy and successful marriage. We have a pretty easy going relationship because we are able to still talk to each other, which I think is very important. If you cannot talk to your spouse about good things and the bad things affecting you, then how could it work? Being married has changed me in a lot of ways. I have grown up a lot in the past five years because I have realized that it is he and I against the world, and as long as we have that kind of partnership with every issue we face, we will do just fine.
2006-08-02 13:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 6 years now and the thing I like the most about it is that I am finally settled with my wife. Dating and the first couple three years of marrige are mostly getting to know all the little things about your spouce, then a couple years adjusting to all youve learned about them. I'm finally comfortable with who my wife our life together. The bad part is that sence we are still a young couple, it's a strugle getting our house turned into our home. Money is always tight, our parents (thought they are finally getting used to us being married) still expect us to do things like when we were kids without regard to our spouce.
I do think that we will last forever, or as long as we are both alive as long as we both keep the commitment that we have now. We both refuse to get a divorse, so any major problem that arrises, though we know it would be easer to call it quits and walk our seperate ways we refuse to give up and force ourselves to work the problem out. Then when the problem is solved, we are that much happier, and that much more committed to our marrige.
2006-08-02 13:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by honest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st year is the hardest. Why? I don't know.
I hope that our marriage will last forever, I love him so much. Of course we have good times and bad times but, the good times are great and we are also friends, I think that that helps.
2006-08-02 14:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mother-In-Law is Satan in the flesh. Have you ever seen Monster In Law. Someone met my mother in law and decided to make a movie about a much nicer version of her. Other than that my marriage is good
2006-08-02 19:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by vanembryzoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good we are still married, bad well his is out of work for a week
2006-08-02 13:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it not to many bad time the biggest fight we have is about the dog.He is a keeper.
2006-08-02 13:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having regrets maybe you should think about separation.
2006-08-02 13:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋