What are you looking for?

Question

Im bored so im just gonna ask...
Girls- what do you look for in a guy?
Guys what do you look for in a girl?

Answer 1

Well all the guys who say looks don't matter are lying..I mean come on you have to be attracted to the person to be with them...but they can't be really hot and totally stupid..I look for cute with a good personality.

Answer 2

What do I look for in a girl? beauty,sex,intelligence,upbringing or riches. My experience tells me that it is impossible to judge a person in a few or many meetings you have before making a commitment. Is physical beauty really important? How long will it last? Companionship with a female partner might last a lifetime spanning anywhere between 40 to 60 years( in a lasting and enduring companionship) where as the span of physical beauty has a life of say 20 years at best! Same goes for sex too.The obsession for sexual assets disappears even before we settle down in a companionship. Also sex and beauty which appear so important and vital just gets very boring within a period of six months to an year. Differential intelligence are seen to cause ego problems! Same goes for riches too. Let us come back to the question with which we started. The key lies in moderation. Every thing in moderation and nothing in excess. What I really mean is that two partners who are looking forward to a companionship should assess whether their attributes are compatible and comparable ie both should be reasonably goodlooking and none repulsive and preferably from similar backgroud and upbringing and so on with no major differentials. If their is too much discrepancy it will not work. Instead of looking for physical features that are transitory one should aim at inner beauty and strength of character and qualities such as compassion,caring and love which make the partnership lasting enduring and most enjoyable.

Answer 3

"I'm looking for dime, one thats top of the line, cute face, slim waist with a big behind"
Mostly that, nice eyes and smiles too, as well as some pretty feet. Aside the superficial, just a chill chick thats not overboard perky, doesnt like getting me angry on purpose, isnt a materialistic airhead, and is just a strong/smart person, a lil vulnerability is okay though. Some wit would only be better.

Answer 4

In a guy-

1. Good sense of humor
2. Intelligence
3. Kind personality
4. Someone who can cheer me up when i'm down!!

Answer 5

I look for alot of things in a guy..I don't have a list...but its ot long...i just don't really want to put it down...
here are some...
-personality
-sweet, cool, down to earth...
-funny (has a sense of humor)
-he's cute...
-he is the missing peice to my puzzle...he's my match...so he fits what all i am looking for...
I found my guy already...!!! Im happy!!!

Answer 6

being female i honestly look for a guy that's got a fun personality and is not the jealous type. kind of easy going but still opens doors for me and that kind of thing. not afraid to let loose and can tolerate being with someone who is flirtatious.

Answer 7

Listed in order of importance.
1.Sense of humor
2.Respectful
3.Self Awareness / Self-honesty; imperfections welcomed.
4.Kindness.
5.Creative.
6.Positive Thinker.
7.Intelligent.
8.Edgy-Risk Taker's need only apply.
9.Kind Eyes
10.Humble.
......................Democrats who are not afraid of strong women are the icing on the cake.

Answer 8

I'm a girl and I'm looking for a guy that's smart, funny, attractive,handsome, romantic, a person who amazes my parents.

Answer 9

As a female, I seek a stong, affectionate, warm-hearted gentleman...with calloused hands, laughing eyes, and a real sense of adventure.

Answer 10

i look for someone who wants to just be friends, to go do things with, dinner, etc. Not some big talker, a guy who isn't afraid to be himself, sincerity , honesty, a nice guy!