yesterday i caught my best frend cheatin wit my boy frend.wat should i do.my frend asked me 2 forgive her,and my boyfrend is begging 4 my forgiveness.Should i forgive my frend and b worried if shes gona do it again or should i dump her and forgive my boyfrend who i really luv and all and try 2 keep him away from my best friend?wat should i do plze sum1 HELP!
2006-08-02 05:37:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My answer is it depends on how long have u and her been bestfriend if it almost been a lifetime then i think u should forgive her and give her a second chance and dumb that dumbfounded piece of **** u call a boyfriend cuz it dont deserve u if he cheated on u wit yo bestfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 05:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry but your not gonna want to hear the answers to this question and I don't sugar coat things so here we go.....
Your only option if you want peace of mind is to move on without either of them, a true friend never does something like that, no excuses, you can nver truly trust her again and it has forever changed things between the two of you. You do not need a ***** like that for a friend, my mother always said " You are only as good as the people you surround your self with" so having a friend like that won't say much about you if you keep her around. As far as the boyfriend goes, I am assuming you are still pretty yound so "a dime a dozen" baby, that's not true love for the fact that in that instant that he was with your friend you were forgotten about and how he felt for you wasn't as strong as the urge he felt in his pants. You know you deserve better and if you set the bar high enough you will find a real MAN worthy of your heart.
2006-08-02 05:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by M.Kaaua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 3-some
2006-08-02 05:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you ever trust either person ever again? My best friends boyfriend wanted to cheat with me and I told him no. They did not brake up at that point, but he did break up with her later. A few years passed and they started dating again and now have been married for 10 years. All I can say is that people will treat you the way you demand to be treated. I would keep that in mind when dealing with these two people.
2006-08-02 05:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Fantasy Sarongs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving does not mean having them in your life. Forgive them and then find a new friend and a new man.
2006-08-02 05:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by ScottishhoustonGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't forgive them. If your so called friend did this once to you then what makes you think that she won't do it again. There are other friends and boyfriends out there for you. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-02 05:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by power of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friend is not your friend! I would not do something like this to my friend. But you mast know that cheating needs two! So, I think that is also your boyfriends fold!!! I wold probably break up with both of them, because she is not your friend and he would do this to you again...first time is never the last-believe me I know, I have been there....
2006-08-02 06:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by baby_doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You thought she was your best friend...think again. Sounds to me like you need a real friend.
Men usually cheat on wifes and girlfriends with someone you don't know....but this....your boyfriend has no respect for you and your girl friend has no regards to your feelings either....
It is really up to you to decide whether they are worth giving a second chance...ask yourself this question...would you cheat on your boyfriend with his best friend or your girl freind's boyfriend?
2006-08-02 05:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them Then tell them both goodbye. This is the ultimate betrayal on both their parts. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
2006-08-02 05:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend and your friend, obviously neither of them cares enough about you or respects you because of what they did. I know it sounds harsh but what they did is wrong and hurtful to you and she cannot be true friend if she would do that to you and he can't claim he loves you if he would do that.
2006-08-02 05:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Meggo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋