mature to be with a man that is 34 i am 24 he has been married and divorce, no kids, works in Phili as a Welder, he will be out there for a 1 year, he has been gone for a month, we talk on the phone, he will come back to PR next friday and leave on sunday. is it worth the time, or just be friends. He is very serious, he knows what he wants, but will i give him what he needs, i like him because he has his priority stright and wants a stable familu, has a car and house in pr he left to work in PHili to get more money to have his on company out here. dont know what to do, we have never gone out or kiss, we have good conversations, dont know what to do.
2006-08-02 05:34:28 · 10 answers · asked by pooh_lrh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you could work on your spelling and grammar first... Mature men appreciate intelligent coherent women.
2006-08-02 06:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are taking a huge risk by having internet boyfriends., Bottom line you don't even know the guy and you don't know for sure if what he is telling you is true. Make sure that he has a hotel room booked and that he knows that you have to go back home and sleep at home. You have to protect yourself and tell people where are you going and with whom. If you don;t like the guy or find that there is no atttraction or chemistrym then you might be trapped into him expecting you to spend the night with him or whatever.
Trust your gut instinct. He might be a liar or an axe muderderer, or even married. You don't know for sure.
If you want to cancel, cancel and leave it at that. Don't risk your life and mental health playing mind games with strangers.
Be aware that there are a lot of creeps out there. Be careful.
Good luck
2006-08-02 06:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If didn't commit to anybody else regarding your marriage, then go ahead with this guy as he is financially sound and will keep you happy as he is also experienced now with his first marriage, he will not repeat mistakes. But, please do spend more time in knowing him personally in all the aspects which are important to you. Surely, there will be no problem because of your age difference, but it will help you a lot. A female gets matured faster when compared to man physically and also mentally. A female od age 20 is equally matured to man of age 30.
2006-08-02 05:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tanveer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would continue to take things at a relaxed pace. It sounds like he is a good man and you care for him. Don't rush things. He is going to be gone for a year and things can change when your away from each other. If you can see him occasionally and be sure your feelings for him are real as his are for you. If it continues to progress in a positive manner, go for it.
Just take your time and make sure he is right for you.
Good luck
2006-08-02 06:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is are you in a hurry to get married and have your own family and such? What is HIS agenda? Do both of you have the same agenda?
if the answer to the last two is yes, then what do you have to lose? Or, are you not wanting to leave the dating game quite yet?
2006-08-02 05:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious is he divorced once,this isn't baseball three strikes and you're out. Friends for now,wait until he's back and see if he really is serious or just lonely
2006-08-02 05:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out .you never lose by confessing your love for someone but you'll definately lose if you hold back .Good luck!
2006-08-02 05:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends for that year he's gone then if you both want to hook up do so
2006-08-02 05:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship with him, then go for it. If you don't, don't waste his time or yours. All in or not at all.
2006-08-02 05:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg relax and enjoy you new friend. dam dont label it just yet. ENJOY
2006-08-02 05:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋