my bf and i are getting into fights a lot and what started with him shoving me and me shoving back now has progressed to slaping one another hard and punching and kicking and me biting. he is a lot like my ex. bf that i still love wich is kinda why i started dating him but now are fights are otta control. even as friends we vented on each other this way. how do we break up or fix this to save our friendship or some sort of relationship.
2006-08-02 05:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
should we take breaks and stay away from one another. before we started seeing each other he had a bad breakup.
2006-08-02 05:21:46 · update #1
he just reminds me so much of my ex. bf that i still love and it makes me angry.
2006-08-02 05:25:44 · update #2
i was pregnant by my ex. bf but lost the baby at 5 months.
2006-08-02 05:28:00 · update #3
my ex. bf never hit me
2006-08-02 05:28:30 · update #4
If you are in love with your previous boyfriend what are you doing with this guy? No this problem is not going to go away but I think you should be truthful before resentment eats you up. Just say that is it, I don't love you never have. Not as a boyfriend girlfriend relationship but as a friend and please don't hit me.
2006-08-02 05:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you two need to serious get some help..my wife and i were like that in high school..but i think our problems came from being young parents trying to be normal teenagers....i think with you a lot has to do with you loving your ex still...your new boyfriend is never going to be your just like your ex boyfriend there is only one of him...your going to have to let go of the feelings you have for him i know its hard but it will help your relationship now...you might also think of taking a break with your new boyfriend....only because you say it has progressed into more then just shoving..and thats not right...its just going to get worse...so have a talk with him and maybe you two could even go see a counselor....hope things work out for you...
2006-08-02 05:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by sgtrlopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you get some serious councelling to find out "why" you need to get physical with some one that you might 'love'??
You are going to keep doing this, because you have issues that need to be worked out, and until you "do" get councelling, you are going to make everyone you ever love, have to "fight thier way" through you, to get close to you, and then fight thier way to get away from you...
You are the problem, not your boyfriend, or your ex...
There are a lot of places in the Yellow Pages, that you can go to, and some for free if you are low income...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-02 05:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should break up, before one of you gets in trouble for physical abuse. Any person who loved you would not be willing to hurt you in that way, so even if you love him, you have to let him go. No matter how great your love is, you can never love enough for the both of you.
2006-08-02 05:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why all the anger? Is there drinking involved or drugs? This relationship is not healthy for either of you. It is best to part, fing out where the angeris coming from before entering into another relationship.
2006-08-02 05:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u couple go to counseling i know it sounds corny but it might help my bf and i use to fight like that alot and i am pregnant now so he cant touch me and i have learned to respect him and not touch him, i guess u 2 could use a lil break from, eachother, i dont mean break up just a break for a few days
2006-08-02 05:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does things to you, he has no right to be with you. You should leave him. It might be hard, but the thing is, you deserve better. By staying with him while he does this to you, you're telling him it's ok that he treats you this way. You DESERVE someone who is kind to you!
2006-08-02 05:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll just need a break from each other if it's like that.
2006-08-02 05:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you to are hitting each other you are disrespecting each other. If you are disrespecting each why are you two together? do you enjoy the abuse??? Does he??? If so then i think you guys have seriuos problems and you need help.
2006-08-02 06:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by tanya b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should tlk to him about how u will leave him if he contines to hit you. if you guys do break up tell him u still wanna be friends n dat u still cared bout him.
2006-08-02 05:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋