My friend told me that her husband only want to have sex twice or thrice in a month. She wants to know is it normal for a newly wed couple to have such a low sex profile
2006-08-02 05:09:53 · 23 answers · asked by kitty katty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nope this is the stress caused by early stage after marriage where she is trying to settle into the new environment and that he is now into the mental concept that he has to provide for the family.
tell all those webbies to stop kidding themselves or others. yes it is normal.
according to singapore satistical data, average singaporean have sex about 1 1/2 times per week. which makes us the least sexiest person on earth except when you are annabel chong
give him about 3 months when he is more settled with you as a full time bed partner now, his settling of emotion as a breadwinner, he should revert after your some enticing.
also you must understand that you have also innately drives him away with your stress in a new environment perhaps
2006-08-02 14:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends first on how long they have known each other. If they had sex all the time before they were married then they probably don't feel the need to be all over each other now. Once a week is pretty typical forpeople that have been in a relationship for a long time
2006-08-02 12:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the husband does not want to have a family too soon. That is why he is restricting himself to having sex twice or thrice in a month.
2006-08-03 03:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did they have sex lots b4 they marry? Normal is different for all, some men and women like lot's sex , some don't! Heavy work load, stress, money worries, too close family/friends, health can all take a toll as well. Maybe she can set the mood, get things going herself rather than waiting for him to make the first move.
2006-08-02 12:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ms CMP5260 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say NO... or at least it is not normal in my newly wed marriage. We have sex like 3-4 a week. She needs to tell her husband how she feels
2006-08-02 12:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by kelynn1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal or not it is not up to outsiders to decide. I think what is most important is that ur friend needs to have a serious talk with her husband and find out what is the problem.
Communication and understanding is key here.
2006-08-02 12:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by sugar.peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they were already doing it alot before they got married that could be it or if they were living together but usually no that is not normal or they could just have no time for each other damn it is already starting off bad and oh yeah tell your friend to go talk to her husband not you!
2006-08-02 12:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...unless your an older couple i mean you can do that but mostly newly weds have sex twice three times in a day tell her to sit down w/ her husband and talk to him about how she feels about him =) i hope this helps but if it dont just tell her to get marriage counsleing on it =)
2006-08-02 12:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it always been like this in their relationship? Was it like this before, with other women? If so, he might just have a low sex drive (it does happen). But if it's a change that occured suddenly, I would be concerned.
2006-08-02 12:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were they sexually active before their marriage?
If not, this would have been a VERY good topic to discuss.
Most newlyweds enjoy each other sexually for quite sometime, despite the differences in appetite.
She needs to have a heart to heart talk with her husband. She may have a l-o-n-g unhappy life.
2006-08-02 12:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋