65% of women cheat on thier lovers and likewise 67% of men ,so,why not just go for the fling hand in hand and maybe chose sex partners for each other if you both want to feel something different.
2006-08-02 05:07:29 · 11 answers · asked by andrey 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you and your spouse are cheaters that's fine, if you are really in love and happy and really want to spend the rest of your life with the person you are with, you will not.
2006-08-02 05:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans are not naturally monogomous. The average length of a human pair bond is 3-4 years. To make it last throughout an entire lifetime is often impossible. It takes way more than love. Some people avoid cheating by swinging or doing an occasional threesome. I think it's healthy. I mean, if you don't trust and love each other completely, how do you expect to make it last?
2006-08-02 12:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of couples do, do that its called an open relationship and its getting more common and maybe all the cheating your talking about stems from people not having sex before marrage people need to experience different things before they Can make a life long commitment or they just spend their lives wondering what if and most end up being unfaithful
2006-08-02 13:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by RACHEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not only sex that makes the two to stick together. I think its a beautiful word called love and it comes from the heart. Till one gets it towards the other partner, the search goes on and on till it is there between both of them.
2006-08-02 12:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by easyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most people want more then a fling thats why. I think when you pick the person you want then you should do what ever it takes to make each other happy so you or they don't want to cheat
2006-08-02 18:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Brooklyn Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know where you got those statistics... because they seem extremely inflated to me!
My significant other and I would never even consider a "fling". I think it's not true love if you could imagine cheating...
2006-08-02 12:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are insecure about the relationship they have and the connection they have with their "one". Sharing, or swinging can bring these insecurities out into the open and cause emotional distress. Why cause someone you care about any distress?
2006-08-02 12:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by lrad1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so now i am in the 35% that doesn't.
polyamory doesn't work all that well either.
i think we stick because our needs are being met.
to prevent cheating, meet your lover's needs.
2006-08-02 12:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ever hear of key parties? thats exactly what it is. Personaly though I have nothing to do with cheating.. and never will.
2006-08-02 12:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, we try so hard to live in the society molded for us.
2006-08-02 12:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by ridethestar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋