i did something with a guy like last year and i did not tell him about that certain guy because I i did not want anybody to know and so the only person that i told was my best friend sarah and she kinda blurted it out yesterday in from of me and him yesterday and she said that she did not mean too ... i mean i am not mad at her or anything ... but it was in the past and before i ever met him and he says that i hurt him because i lied to him and i told him all the people i was with and i did not tell him that one guy and now he knows and he says that i hurt him really bad and i dont know what to do ... i will barely talk to me ... i love him with all my heart and i am lost and i have just been crying since last night!!! worried since he left our house. will sombody please help me ! or give me some advice! please no rude answers !
2006-08-02 05:05:29 · 7 answers · asked by kalyn4452000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the best thing to do is sit down and talk to him. let yourself cry for a while, it helps vent your feelings. and u need to talk to your friend about blurting out your secret. and with those kind of secrets u need to keep to yourself. girl everything with turn out the way its supposed to. if this guy really loves u he'll listen to wat u have to say and understand. if u need to talk more or need more advice e-mail me ok. hang in there.
2006-08-02 05:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past. Let it go. It's not as though you did this thing over a year ago to hurt your future boyfriends feelings. That's just not realistic. He also had a past before you. Ya'll should let sleeping dogs lie. He'll get over this just give him some time to process it. It probably hurts him to think of you with somone else. if ya'll really love each other he will find it in his heart to forgive you. now don't sit around and worry all day. Good luck
2006-08-02 05:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some reason you kept this guys name off the list? If so, I believe you thought it was a good reason..even if it was to not hurt his feelings, if he didn't like this guy for some reason. Just tell him why you kept it from him. Guys are pretty simple beings...and yes I mean that in EVERY sense of the word. lol Just explain to him...in terms that make sense to HIM. I don't think you will have a problem. Most people understand if you had a LOGICAL reason for not telling him. lol Hope this helps.
2006-08-02 05:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine it enables to look on the wider scope of issues. there'll be an outstanding style of considered necessary days on your existence -- college commencement, getting a reliable interest, marriage, little ones being born, and so on. severe college commencement is substantial too, yet i do not imagine every person could even bear in mind that you tripped. I graduated from h.s. only many years in the past, and that i slightly bear in mind how the rite went. If someone does bear in mind that you tripped, then take delight in contributing to something memorable that exceeded off at a commencement rite (that are many times very boring.) it is also ok in case you probably did not get your degree replica on time, you receives it ultimately, and employers hardly ask to be certain it besides (they have digital records to envision.)
2016-11-27 20:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to be rude but he needs to gorw up. That was in the past. I am sure you don't know everything about his past. Find a guy who has some balls.
2006-08-02 05:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and when I get pissed off, I just need time to get over it. Guys can get over anything with time. In a few days go up to him and try to apologize again.
2006-08-02 05:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if ur sad im me and ill make things all better (thats if u want i hate seeing people sad) well u know where to find me
2006-08-02 05:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋