I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years. I love her very much, and I don’t want to lose her. But a year ago I cheated on her with my older brothers kids babysitter. Me and my girlfriend were living together for the first year…then I wanted to move back home to help my mom out, and she wasn’t old enough to get her own place so she had to move home to a trailor in the backyard of her parents house. Her parents didn’t want her there. It was winter time, and I was at my moms and I would have that girl come over and we would sleep together. My gf didn’t know, and she kept callin me telling me she misses me and she is miserable, but I wouldn’t give in. I kept sleeping with this girl and started to form a relationship. Then my girlfriend found out, and I cried. I didn’t see that girl since. But she still hangs with my mom and brothers, she hasn’t left my life. Now a year later I am afraid my girlfriend is having doubts about us. I don’t want her to leave I love her
2006-08-02 05:04:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know the fact that this girl is still seein my family and that really bothers her but theres nothin i can do bout it.
SHe just isnt the same sweet girl ...
2006-08-02 05:04:57 · update #1
I always felt that I would never forgive someone for cheating on me until it happened. we were together for two years when I found out he had cheated. needless to say I moved out and it took me three years to finally be able to tell him I forgave him. three weeks later he died. Give her some time to sort through everything and find her place again. You need to realize she trusted you and you broke that trust and it's a hard thing to gain back. I hope she'll find it in her heart to forgive you and if she does that you learned from your mistakes. Life is to short and there might not be a tomorrow to say your sorry
2006-08-02 05:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by mommyof1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just convince her how sry u r and how u wont do it again cuz u luv her so much and mayb she might take u back cuz if sum1 luves u alot they would 4 give u 4 wat u did even though it was wrong and this comin 4rom a grl who nos wat shes talkin bout
2006-08-02 12:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by poohbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋