im going out with this older guy, he has two children and was married, im 19 hes 30,
is it worth carrying on or not,? i like him alot but im not in love with him, but it has only been 2weeks since we started dating
2006-08-02 05:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by sarah 22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you don't feel it, then don't. he's 30, married, has kids. you have your whole life ahead of you. why tie yourself down...with his kids even! hes been there, done that. he'll find someone that better suits him. likewise for you. seriously, if YOU don't feel it, DON'T!
2006-08-02 05:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by bizarrorigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yor probably just having a bit of fun which is fine to do just don't let him get too fond of you as you don't want to break his heart once you've had yor fun.
I have a friend who was with a guy who was 10 years older and they married and had children but are now split up this was because of the age gap. She wanted to go out and do things and have a good time whereas he'd 'been there done that' they had too many differences which I'm sure will be the same as u 2. If I were you i'd finish it now before you get too close... go out n live your life. Children are a tie until you really want them (not that I have any but I've heard from friends who have) I'm only 20 so i'm not an older woman lecturing u i'm just saying what I think due to my friend's experiences. Hope this help. Good luck x
2006-08-02 12:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by 'Rickaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont love the guy you are best out of the relationship babe, ihe has 2 kids you dont want to be left with that responsibility at the age of 19. You are young go and live a little, there is time enough to settle down....... with someone you love xxx
2006-08-02 12:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you like him, so what? Keep him as a pal only.
There are plenty of women his own age he will take to and probably has just around the corner.
Is it worth carrying on or not? I don't know what it is your carryng on with. This mans an an adult and will do his own thing.
2006-08-02 12:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be saddled with two kids that aren't even yours. He's looking for a mother for his kids. I married the first time and was your age. I wasn't in love either. I thought I could learn to love him. WRONG! Worst mistake of my life. Move on and date someone closer to your age.
2006-08-02 12:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends where you can see it goin? if you think its gonna end up in a few months time finishing then just do it now! the kids wont get attached and you'll be saved a lot of heart ache. on the other hand if you think that there is a possibility of a longer thing going on go for it.
2006-08-02 12:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some ppl it takes a while to fall in love with someone else. give the relationship a month or two and see how things turn out. just hang in there and go with the flow.
2006-08-02 12:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 year old men are always thankful for silly 19 year old girls.
2006-08-02 12:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it asap
2006-08-06 07:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mike7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see how it goes,but your young and will probably want different things
2006-08-05 08:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋