Its just shes been quite lately and she seems to like other people, should i just brake the whole thing off?
2006-08-02 04:49:07 · 23 answers · asked by John F 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it's break and sounds like she already has
2006-08-02 04:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Turn the tables on her and start acting the way she does. It will either make her realize that she really does like you and doesn't want to lose you, or it will make it easier for both of you to break up. Don't kiss her butt and cater to her. Don't let her see ya sweat, Stand up for yourself and let her know that you aren't going to wait around for her to decide what she wants. Life is too short to be someone's doormat. If you really want to find out if she likes you, act the same exact way she is, and find out how she reacts. Most people want something more if they think they can't have it... Good Luck
2006-08-02 12:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by ozzysgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually talked to her about it? Ask what she wants. If you cant get a straight answer and she continues to make you uncertain, then break up with her. But if she needs something from you and she's afraid to be straight forward, you have to take the first step.
But if you're not all that committed and you really cant see the relationship going anywhere, give her a fair shot to explain herself, then take it where you want it to go.
2006-08-02 11:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by CC McKnowItAll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but get her to talk to you about it. Because you hate to find out later that she felt the same about you and just took the breakup but didn't want it. Or there is some other reason.
I would just say, 'hey, it seems like you are not interested anymore and you want to move on, so you are free to go if you wish. But know that I still like you and I would prefer that you stay and we work this out.' How about that?
2006-08-02 12:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by ridethestar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize it early and break it off now. Not worth being miserable down the road.
2006-08-02 11:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jenkins77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. i would just kindda wait a while. she;s probably acting like that to test how much you really love her or if you would get jelous. girls usually do that. most likely just wait like another day or so, then just go up and talk to her. she'll liek that. trust me. write a poem or something for her.
2006-08-02 11:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls are different so i suggest talking to her about it and if she does like other people, break it off.
2006-08-02 11:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through that once. Break it off now before it goes on any longer.
2006-08-02 11:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let the chips fall where they can and go with the punches of things so to speak. if the relationship was meant to be then it will work out for you.
2006-08-02 11:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a quiet sit down in a park or other neutral place, and discuss where your relationship is, and where you both want it to be.
2006-08-02 11:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a shrink before you drive yourself crazy trying to figure her out.
2006-08-02 11:53:27 · answer #11 · answered by Dan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋