me and my gf.. i'm 27 and she's 37....we just can't stop argguing about anything...something would just come up for us to argue about.......i'm getting sick, she can't take too..what should i or we do?but there's only one thing i know that i really do love her soo much......help me please .......
2006-08-02 04:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by khuntakenthe 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Break up. You're just infatuated with her.
2006-08-02 05:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a million. definite yet have been given informed no way in hell 2. no longer probably. in basic terms via my bf 3. no 4. of direction. Wouldn't decide for to stroll into chilly water? 5. Ate nutrients? 6. No yet... am i able to? 7. No that's basically incorrect 8. i'm top now 9. everlasting relationship with my bf. I hate activities 10. Marching 11. None 12. No 13. probable 14. definite 15. definite. Haunted my evanescence sixteen. Neither 17. Packing 18. My bf 19. definite 20. No 21. Crave 22. I choose 23. listening to song and answering 24. very own decision i think 25. song land 26. Creed with palms extensive open 27. coffee 28. No it's basically stupid 29. No to a lot of human beings around 30. No 31. No 32. definite 33. definite 34. No 35. My dogs farting on my mom and her a million/2 swear a million/2 get down 36. definite 37. Rapists
2016-11-03 12:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you really love her, then sit down with her and talk about it. If you are both tired of the situation, then find a way to try to stop it.
There are certain "big" issues that you may disagree on, and maybe those won't change, but there probably is a way to stop bickering about the little things. Like, don't always be the one who needs to get that "last" word in. And ignore the small stuff. I know those are cliches, but try and see if it helps!
2006-08-02 04:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened with me and my girlfriend. What ended up happening was us breaking up for a few months. We then realized how much we missed each other and cared for each other and got back together and it has been alot better ever since. Not much arguing and when there is, we work it out alot better.
2006-08-02 04:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not mature enough for her. If you argue ALOT, its obvious you don't get along. Sure, you may love her, but if you don't get along, you have to move on. Better than making both of you miserable all the time.
2006-08-02 05:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by No Liberals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counselling, separately and together. You must change your communication pattern, which is dysfunctional. If you break up, you will both carry it into future relationships. It will be mega-hard, but stop arguing now. You both win, or...
2006-08-02 04:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you both feel the need to argue? Could the age difference be causing consternation that manifests itself in other areas?
You both need to sit and and decide what is important in this relationship and what you BOTH need to sacrifice to make it work.
otherwise, you may as well go your separate ways.
2006-08-02 04:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to be the age difference. She is much older and more of a demanding motherly type. You are still young and she is nearly 40. I would break up and find someone closer to your age OK.
2006-08-05 21:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you argue over nothing and do it often than the love you have isnt real, its infatuation, or lust, or just fear of being without one another. be the brave one and call it a day, move on to the next one.
2006-08-02 06:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need some time apart
2006-08-02 05:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you need professional advice from a counselor, not Yahoo answers.
2006-08-02 04:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by Dan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋