how can I turn a one night stand into a relationship?

Question

He said he wants me for one day only,
we talked about the things we were going to do,
but before it happens how can I make it into more?

Answer 1

Make him want to come back for more. Let him see all the sides of you that normally people don't see. Make him feel special then don't call him for a while.. He'll call you and that's 99% guarantee because once a guy is blown away by a woman, he can't stop thinking about her. Make sure you're not nervous and just be yourself. Have a good time!

Answer 2

Well, you know the term he has offered. If you accept them, there will be no more.
If you can, be strong & tell him you don't want a one night stand. You may lose him, but you will feel better about yourself later & will eventually find someone for more than one day/night.

If you think of a relationship as building a house. The foundation has to be strong to hold up the rest of the house. One day, or a night, of even the best sex, does not make a strong foundation.
Be strong & hold out on him. If he just wants sex, tell him to find someone with less character. You are a person of good character & not just a one night stand.

Answer 3

If he has already expressed that he wants you for one day only, he sees you as disposable. He does not respect you and is not interested in anything long term with you. Even if you have incredible sex with him that day, it still won't be the equivalent of a solid foundation for a relationship to be formed upon. Tell him that you are so much more than a one night stand and that he is too shallow to handle your depth. Don't go out with him or allow him access to your goodies. Men want and appreciate more what they have to work for. If he continues talking that one day crap, kick him to the curb. He is NOT worthy of your time, effort or body.

Answer 4

if you want more then you need to tell him before you do anything if you are not at least some what on the same page it will never happen. If you want to be more then a one night stand then don't do anything because you will just get hurt at the end. Sex is not a way to get a man.

Answer 5

Hold out until he gets to know you. Once you blow him away with your inner beauty, he will want more. But a one night stand is what it is, a one night stand. Guys usually don't go for girls like that. Sex is like a designer bag, not everyone gets one or gets some. If he is being up front about using you for sex, don't expect anymore than that. Move on and find someone else and leave the horndog daydreaming about your close encounter.

Answer 6

Ha ha you idiot. He told you straight out and you still think hes gonna stick around fair play to him for telling you bu no way is it gonna happen. tell him no. Maybe tell him you want to leave it for a while and develop a friendship with him before you do anything although in my opinion he dosent sound like the type of guy you would want to have a relationship with. DOnt be an idiot if you wanna have fun have fun but dont do something expecting to get a relationship out of it. cos in fairness he will of already got what he wanted so whats the point in him sticking around?

Answer 7

Are you really dumb enough to think any man would respect you in the morning following a one night stand? What kind of a man would ask for that in the first place? Use your head... better yet, use someone elses head cause your doesn't seem to work real well!!!

Answer 8

Love Potion
Have you ever wondered what could be in that
magical little bottle of “Love Potion #9"? Try
this, but forget about kissing the cop!
Warning....... NO GUARANTEES !!!!!!!!!!
Bottle of love-
In order to attract love towards you and preserve it
What you'll need:
-1 pink glass bottle or pot
-flowers and petals of fresh or dried flowers
-grasses (mint, rosemary, thyme, bark of orange) dried or fresh
-honey (approximately 1/4 of cup)
-white alcohol (approximately 1 cup of Vodka, Gin or Rum)
-water, sufficient to finish filling the bottle
-pink wax
Ritual:
Fill your bottle with the flowers and grasses, and while adding
them, concentrate on love, its pleasures and all the people you
like.
Pay careful attention to keeping your thoughts on the pleasures
and the joy of love because these are, to some extent
the thoughts you will be placing in the bottle.
Mix the alcohol and honey before pouring the whole on the
grasses and flowers.
Next, fill the bottle with water and seal it with pink wax
carefully.
Take the bottle in your hands and speak aloud the following:
I filled my bottle with thoughts of love and affection. They are
there now for always and they will attract towards me love and
feelings soft so that I am always loved.
When you sense ill feelings from others, go to your bottle and
agitate it gently.
This will re-activate the enchantment.

Answer 9

You can't, honey. You're cheapening yourself, and catering to his whims. He will not cater to yours beyond what he needs to do to ejaculate. He has already told you that he doesn't want you for more than one day. It's your choice to go along with it or not. But his mind is made up, and he's not hiding it from you. He already said all that he wants a one night thrill. So the question is, are you worth more than that?

Answer 10

The old addage is VERY true - no one buys the cow when they can get the milk for free. Don't give it away if they aren't interested in you as an investment. It's simply not worth getting attached to him and then going through the rejection.