"I love computer sir of our school.He is 13-14years older than me.He don't know my feelings. I love him very much from 6 years i am in10th standard now and i may be leaving my school this year.I and this sir has a good relation,he comes to my house often.
I want to express my feelings this year when and how to express it to him..I really love him and also afraid that if i propose him and he reject it and our relatio will break what to do.It is not an attraction it is one sided love from 6 years ,I have rejected 7 proposals for him as i only love him and can't love anyone else.
What to do plz plz plz Help me!"
2006-08-02 04:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anjali S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Poor dear...... If he is unattatched, Then you must express your feelings for him. This may be heartbreaking if he does not feel the same way towards you. However, it may be the only way to get over your feelings towards him. Then you could get on with your life. Good Luck
2006-08-02 04:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by T S 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
10th grade and 7 proposals? Damn! XD I had just as many, but only 2 of these were serious and from guy's I love... (and I'm in 11th). But despite all the above, you're waaaay to young to actually think about it. Marriage is not the first step, and with this guy: you need to wait. A long time, a very long time. If it's true love you'll feel the same way when the time is right, and if it's true love he will love you back. If it's not... it's best to find out now. And DON'T do anything stupid, love is a crazy and blinding thing, but you need to put up boundaries! You can stay away from sexuality, marriage proposals, and still be in love with someone. Those are NOT what makes someone love you -- they should love you for who you are, even if you're about to drive a stake in their heart -- that's love. It's like, I really love this guy, but I still hold my boundaries (everyone has the urge and temptation to be weak and submit), but for goddess' sakes! You're a woman, respect yourself and be strong. The path to wisdom and strength is painful. It's not a buttercup field of romantic fantasies... unfortunately. I see this as a great chance to learn about yourself -- perhaps he's an animus to you, an ideal, perfect representation of your male half, but that doesn't mean he's right for you (at least not yet! Fate works in mysterious ways, if you were meant to be, you WILL BE, no matter what happens! So calm down!).
2006-08-02 11:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by widdershins_blackmetal_fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what country you are from but personally I do not think that relationship with a man that is 13-14 years older than you is appropriate especially when you are only in 10th grade. Also who is proposing marriage to you at your age? You have plenty of other things you should focus on right now such as your education. As a women please forget about this man, concentrate on your school work and in time you will find the man that is right for you, you have plenty of time.
2006-08-02 11:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by bopbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the if the sir guy is 13 yrolder than u u should prolly do what he says and accept his proposal
even tho ur about 15 and he's 29 u 2 will make a great couple
2006-08-02 11:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by QUESTION 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave well alone ... get a life and find new friends.
It's commonly known as a crush and will disappear when you move on with your life! Whatever you do, don't propose marriage to him - if he rejects you (as he probably will) you'll be almost suicidal!
2006-08-02 11:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so basically you are 16 and looking at a 35 year old guy as the love of your life? wait a while and somthing new and shinny will come along soon...
2006-08-02 11:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him he might understand however he is quite older than you so age is a big thing here all you can do is tell him how you feel and just be prepared for whatever may happen.
2006-08-02 11:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already asked this right? Only you can answer this now.
2006-08-02 11:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? and how old is he? does he seem to like u 2?
2006-08-02 11:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by MiiSS CHRiiSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some time alone with him.give yourself to him sexually.good luck you little tramp.
2006-08-02 11:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋