ever feel like when ur talking to some one alone that they r ur best friend but in a group ur ready to stice a nife in them? r they ur friend or r they just prtending? this happens with me with boys and girls.
2006-08-02 04:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't tell us your age, but I'm guessing your young. This is life. People one on one with you will give you their undivided attention and some are very good at making you believe you are their favorite (favorite at the moment). When you get in a group that person is putting the people in that room in the order of who they would most like to be with the most. We all do it to some extent. Some people are just not as nice.
Don't get me wrong though, this friend could very well have selected you as her best friend its just when she gets in a crowd she likes to play the crowd. I think the bottom line is does she always come back for your friendship? Do you enjoy her friendship? Take it for what it is worth.
Lighten up...enjoy life...mingle with the crowd yourself.
2006-08-02 04:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am normally their friend but then I get screwed over by them. I would be very cautious around those who are like that with you because chances are ... they really are not your friends and they are probably talking behind your back!
2006-08-02 11:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, spell check...
answer: no... If someone treats me differently in a group, or I feel they are disingenuous, you won't catch me hanging out alone with them, or referring to them as a best friend.
Consistency = Quality
At least, in my book.
2006-08-02 11:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by kymmisue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want to seem cool in groups and so they tell things about u they don´t actually mean. but talk to them and tell them u don´t need them as friends when they´re talkin like that.
2006-08-02 11:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could give you a better answer if i understood your question.
2006-08-02 11:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by problemsolver86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pertending but yet i am not sure so my real answer is PRAY!
2006-08-02 11:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by JORDAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋