there is a boy in my class who likes me and he told me that. but i can't figure out how to say no to him without hurting his feelings.
2006-08-02 04:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by nimubb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no easy way to let someone down. I suggest you just tell him the truth about how you feel but at the same time maybe you can throw in some compliments for his self-esteem. For example, I'm sorry, you are a great guy but I just don't feel that way towards you. Maybe you can be friends with him or just a compliment will be fine.
2006-08-02 04:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There really is no easy way to tell a guy that you are not interested in him that way. Not to be cliche, but no guy wants to hear from someone he likes" I think we should just be friends" when he cares for the other person. The best approach would be to be totally honest and sincere about it. I am not saying be rude and harsh and drive him into the ground, but treat him as though he was, is , and you still want him to be your friend. If the friendship ends just because you say you are not interested then there never was much of a friendship anyways. The best of luck.
2006-08-02 04:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're not interested. Hurt feelings are a fact of life. It is inescapable, and you can't reject someone without hurting someone's feelings.They'll get over it.
2006-08-02 04:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, any answer you give him other than yes is going to sting for a while. Best thing is to not let this drag. Tell him the truth, that you don't feel the same way.
2006-08-02 04:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pask 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i merely instructed my suitable guy chum that. He has enjoyed me for 3 years, I do like him yet i like different adult males asbwell. I instructed him that i'm at a element in my life while relationships are not something that i want precise now , I merely want to pay interest on greater substantial issues, sorry i do love you however :) <3
2016-10-01 09:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your getting a restraining order against him. So stay away!
2006-08-02 04:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest..if you can genuinely say that you like his company, say so and then say, i don't have the same feelings as you.
2006-08-02 04:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't --- just be honest and considerate...tell him that you think of him only as a friend
2006-08-02 04:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋