Do you think it is wrong your other half logs into your emails, and checks your mobile?

Answer 1

er, yes! Why would he/she wish to do so? Why are they able to do so?
This must be a very suspicious person. What next - are they going to start opening your post, following you?

Answer 2

Yes I think it's wrong. It happens to me all the time. I'm scared to have guy friends in case he reads it the wrong way. It's annoying and frustrating at times but I've told him how much I hate it. He's learning, it's not so frequent now. I like to have my own life as well, guys just aren't that good at grasping the fact that you can want privacy without it being for a bad reason!
Just tell them how it makes you feel if it starts to get you down; hopefully they'll realise it's not worth the effort.

Answer 3

Yes, I feel that people need to realize if your other is checking and you are checking right back then the both of you are missing this one thing called trust which is what the relationship must be built on.

I guess initially this is ok behaviour but after a while... it should stop.

Let your freinds help you if you're still not sure.. they'll tell you objectively if you allow them to.

Answer 4

No it is wrong, but have you given him/her reason to be suspicious, maybe if you let him/her get on with it then that must surely put any suspicions to rest. The simple way to stop anyone looking at your emails is to change your user i.d/password, but that might start the whole cycle over again. Perhaps you should just both trust each other more

Answer 5

Yes, most definitly, it shows a complete lack of trust and is an invasion of your right to privacy.

Why is he doing this? Maybe you should ask him, and put his mind at rest if he thinks the worse.

But if he has no real underlying reason to do this, then it may be time to evaluate the relationship that you have before it gets worse

Answer 6

well being someone that has done it-- it is wrong but what led me to do it is my husband CONTINUES to lie to me about contacts/visits with females and I don't trust him.I pay the bills so I'll be damned if I will pay cell phone bills and internet bills for him to arrange rendezvous with other women!! :-)

If you are completely honest and have nothing to hide your partner won't have a reason to question your honesty-- if you have something to hide or are not faithful just be honest with them --if you have not done anything to cause mistrust then I'd say the other party have some issues they need to resolve.

Answer 7

Yes, it is wrong! I went through that 2 years ago and it Will drive you both crazy and apart from each other. You will loose your respect for them and start resenting them for not trusting in you more than that.! I just don't understand where they get off doing such crazy stuff how would they feel if tables were turned? Try it.see how they like it then.........Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

ABSOLUTELY YES!!!!
Its a sign on mistrust and dominence. I dated a guy like this and looking back now Im mortified that I actually let him.
Your emails and phone are your business - if you insist on letting him check yours - then you're quite entitled to see his as well.
My advice though is get out of this relationship - he doesnt trust you and it will only get worse.

Answer 9

My girlfriend winds me up when she gets a txt n says its no one. So wen i get 1 i do the same and she gets quite frustrated bout it. But we both know its jokes.. So it aint a big deal. If you love each other n share everything, whats the problem with having a little nosy lol

Answer 10

Yes i think its a bit of an invasion of personal space, but if you have nothing to hide then I really wouldnt worry too much abou it.

Answer 11

I see no problem with this at all. You and your other half should not have anything to hide from one and other. I gave my partner my e-mail address and password and feel good that she can access my information.