i am 19,im a very attractive girl,im kind and friendly and have a good sense of humour,but whenever i meet new ppl they never see this bcoz im so quiet,i barely say two words to ppl i have jst met coz im so embarresed,i dont know wot to say and i go all red.....also i am starting college i august so i want to be able to make new friends easily.
2006-08-02 03:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
well hunny this is my speciality, i am actually underneath a really shy quiet person, but i portray myself differently in order to have all eyes on me, adn to make friends easily, i hate the idea of peopl not liking me, heres what to do, when you are in a situation when you are in a big group with alot of people you do not knw, first im amagine some of them either naked or doing something really humiliating, this will give u the giggles. then try talking to the person next to you start by asking questions that you would like to know about the person sush, as where do they live what kind of music are they into, ya kno that kinda thing. then when there is a converstation where everyone is talking just join in, stop worrying about what u are going to say and just speak your mind, pple could find u interesting or funny, no-one is really sitting there judging u thinking omg what a loser. just be proud of who u are and also a good thing to do when making friends is be a little flirtatious, especially if you are attractive it works a treat, i should kno
good luck hun x x x
2006-08-02 03:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
right when you go to college on your first day make sure you are wearing something that you feel really confident and comfortable in this will really help because you wont be worrying about what people think of you. Remember these people at college have never met you before they know nothing about you so for all they know you are a crazy talkative mad girl so go for it although you will be uncomfortable to begin with you will soon settle into this role as you find people really like you. But remember there is no need to be false be yourself but make sure that people know you're there at the same time!!
2006-08-02 04:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some ugly friends you will then stand out more, it works for me? do you walk with your head down? if you do keep it up and always make eye contact when talking to people, silence speaks a thousand words, don't let your body do the talking? small talk makes friends. don't forget about first impressions. come out of your shell and smile life is too short don't be embarrassed about anything good luck.
2006-08-02 05:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Fake it 'til you make it". I used to be so very shy. My friends were outgoing & fun & popular but I always felt like a tag-along. One day, I just started putting on a false facade of self confidence & attitude. It became natural to me and I actually had to start toning it down after a while!
Good luck.
2006-08-02 03:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by laneydoll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. get naked and run screaming through tescos and dive into the frozen food troughs.
2. wait until security or the police come and get you.
your shyness should now be cured.
note: step 1 may be taken with alcohol.
2006-08-02 04:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by higgles2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh its normal Hun some people can to anyone like me but some find it hard just hello how was your 6 weeks holidays etc its easy if you go red blame it on the fir bloke who just walked in
2006-08-02 04:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may not be the case u need to be more confident, being less confident isnt always bad, you stay out of trouble. somewhere out there there is friends or a boy that are not confident, that may be the one for you
2006-08-02 03:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by DR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋