2006-08-02 02:14:47 · 10 answers · asked by jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey Jack, I enjoy being spanked occasionally by my husband.
I have to be in the mood but when I am I let him know by either dressing up as a naughty school girl or daring him to try.
When he does have me over his knee, I talk dirty to him. After he is done, we have the best sex!
Just be sure your wife is comfortable with it. Make it playful and fun while respecting her limits as to how hard and how long you spank her.
Have fun!
2006-08-02 03:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
If it's the first time she's been spanked - or at any rate the first time in an adult, erotic context - go easy to begin with. Just use your hand and start out spanking her quite gently. Then gradually increase the force of your swats. You should be able to tell if she's liking it from her reactions and her body language, and if she wants you to spank harder she'll most likely let you know. As Jesi says, the whole point is mutual enjoyment.
And the first few times you spank her, give her a safeword she can use if it's really getting to be more than she can take. With luck she won't feel the need to use it, but it'll be reassuring for her to know she can if she wants to.
2006-08-02 18:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to enjoy it is as mutually consenting adults. I prefer to roleplay and enjoy it quite a bit. I can take a good spanking but everyone has their limits and when first starting out its always better to establish them, along with a safe word so you can have fun without having to break character. If things are working out you can always expand the boundaries.
Spanking is quite a common fetish. Just remember that like any other facet of a relationship it requires trust and respect.
2006-08-02 10:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AS A GIRLFRIEND HAVE NEVER BEEN SPANKED BUT I THINK IF I WAS GOING TO BE THEN I WOULD WANT IT WITH ALOT OF LOVE AND TENDERNESS INVOLVED. MAYBE WITH FEATHER OR EVEN YOUR LIPS..SOUNDS GOOD TO ME.....I WOULD TRY IF MY BOYFRIEND WANTED TO
2006-08-02 09:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by JACKIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew i hate it when my man wants to spank me. so make sure ur lady likes it or its not a spank U will get its a slap!!! he he
2006-08-02 09:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too rough. and don't do it if she's not into it, cause you won't enjoy it as much.
2006-08-02 09:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's what rattles your chain
we tried it, we both thought it was silly
2006-08-02 09:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do, specially during anal sex. she loves it more than me.
2006-08-02 09:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, while i fling poop at people
2006-08-02 09:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by u12fme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh???
2006-08-02 09:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋