It is different for fellas, A friend of mine in london got a hidding of my cousin for asking him for change on the street, The boy had family and friends he could turn to, When he was a lad he was always smartly dressed and a lively character. He told him if he ever ask for money for drugs or he saw or heard of him doing it he would do it again. My cousin offered to help him and he now as gone to rehab and my cousin helps him out all the time and thanks him for what he did(he did it cause it hurt him to see a friend like that and make him feel worthless on the drugs)
Ask her what her mum thinks or tell her mum she may hate you for it but she will relise it was for her own good! A shock is what is needed.
2006-08-02 02:14:33
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answered by Macka 3
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Oh no...that's terrible! But before things get worse, first try to talk to your friend about it...when she's not high or stoned or whatever. Try to talk to her when she's sober...let her know you're not joking around, and maybe you should research (maybe dorky, but worth it) about the drugs she is taking and show her what those drugs do to a person's body after so many years. Don't let her keep taking drugs..if necessary, take them away from her! She could be doing her body a great deal of harm..and it's up to you to stop it. Don't worry about her getting in trouble or whatever--what's more important? Her health or her getting away with doing drugs? And this is a total TOTAL last resort: tell her parents about it, and let them know. Even if you ruin the friendship, you can at least know that you saved someone from a lot of bad things. Even though she may dislike you, hopefully she'll come around and realize that you were being a good friend by doing that. Good luck to you
-anu_dew2000 <3^^
2006-08-02 02:13:01
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answered by anu_dew2000 3
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You can't talk sense into them yourself. Try telling a Chocoholic to stop eating chocolate. The truth is that they like what they are doing, and the only one that will finally decide whether they give up is them.
The best you can do is talk to the experts about it. Call frank yourself. You'll get the number from directory enquiries.
In technical terms. A person can give up drugs if they find something more important, which is affected by the drugs in a negative way.
Problem is that Drug addicts place their drugs as very very important.
2006-08-02 02:14:30
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answered by JeffE 6
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You can't unfortunately like others said you are a target for money. I know it's going to be hard but the old saying 'Misery loves company' will come into effect. The more you hang out with her and she's on drugs you will get sucked into it. Don't get pulled into her lifestyle. Friends and family are the first to be hurt, when they can't get money for their supply, a lot of people turn to stealing and the ones that care about them the most are usually the ones hit up first. Be strong stick to your values! Good Luck!
2006-08-02 02:21:46
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answered by DispatchGirl 4
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if you want to help her call an AA group near you
(there # is in the phone book) and ask them what you
should do or say
your friend on the other hand, won't change unless
she wants to or hits rock bottom SO bad that it causes
her to get scared & want to change
you should bring her to a grave yard & tell her that's
where she'll end up if she doesn't get help, but
do this on a day when she can tell what's going on,
if she even has any days like this
by the way, does she still live @ home & do her parents
know that she's doing this ? If so do they even care ?
2006-08-02 02:17:18
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answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6
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It is very hard trying to talk to someone when they will tell you they dont have a problem if talking about it and she laughs than maybe a group of family and friends can get together and confront her and tell her what they dont like about her on drugs and then get her someone to help her best bet is to have someone that has been where she is to be at the meeting . I hope this helps you
2006-08-02 02:11:16
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answered by Anonymous
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mixtures of psychedelics / hallucinogens are particularly unpredictable, even though it does not marvel me if he became nonetheless tripping after 24, or maybe 40 8 hrs. There are drugs on the ER that are an antidote to LSD, yet i'm uncertain approximately psilocybin, the psychoactive constituent of "magic mushrooms". ideally, somebody would desire to a minimum of be conserving an intensive eye on him, to maintain him from harm, and hydrated. If it weant on better than 40 8 hrs, or he confirmed signs and indicators of misery, i could seek for help.
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answered by Anonymous
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well that is a hard situation you are in. there are plenty of numbers in the yellow pages or get some advice from your doctor.but you can not help a person on till they realise that they need help.if i was you i would keep setting a good example and make sure you do not get in to it to no matter how much the pressure is. also i would recommend you do not lend her money as you will encourage her to take them.god bless and i have seen pray work
2006-08-02 07:46:34
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answered by ladyflames 2
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You can't really. As long as she sees nothing wrong with it she won't see the point of not doing it. Perhaps do some research on the drugs she's doing and let her know all the adverse affects. And then wait to hold her hand while she leaves that lifestyle behind or sit back and watch her die.
2006-08-02 02:11:59
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answered by Lotus Phoenix 6
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If u are a true freind u will help her get her into rehab or something tell some one dont just let her take drugs or yes u can do togh love shell hate u for it at first but yea.
2006-08-02 02:13:07
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answered by Steven K 1
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