my girfriends late?

Question

we use protection nothing was wrong with the condom she always check afterwards for leakage but nothing. She is 9 days late and showing no signs of being pregant this has happened before but it lasted only a couple of days we are freaking ouit and need help

Answer 1

They are sometimes late, maybe due to stress or something else. Get a pregnancy test, that's the only way to be sure.

Answer 2

WOW - you found out by experimenting that condoms are not really pregnancy "protection" at all! What a foolish way to look at a such a serious decision in your life as having sex. If you're not ready for the consequences - get out of bed! Checking for leakage doesn't make condoms work better either! I'm sorry that no one has communicated to you the real risks involved. Condoms don't stop one from getting all kinds of VD such as venereal warts either. Wait until 2 weeks after the day she was expecting her period - that is when her body will be producing sufficient hormones to detect using an HPT that you can get from a clinic or crisis pregnancy center. If positive - go to a doctor - most definitely get opinions from both sides before choosing abortion if you are pregnant. I have never met a woman who had an abortion who did not suffer serious effects of depression or a lifetime of wondering - what could have been and struggling with guilt. I've know alot of women who have had them and for most - abortion is a totally devastating choice aside from the risks that it offers of possible infertility and complications. They say that pro-life people magnify the risk but hello - the abortion clinics certainly aren't telling women the true facts and choices - one being that any woman capable of being pregnant is capable of finding help and becoming a great mom. It's one of the greatest things in life that a woman is specifically designed for - motherhood.

Answer 3

Since this has happened before I wouldn't worry about it as it sounds like you have irregular periods. I you haven't got any thing by the 14 day after the due date. Then I would go and buy a home pregnancy kit and do it yourself or you will have to go to your doctors to get a pregnancy test done and usually it 5 minutes for your urine or 24 hours for a blood test . Please don't freak as it could be you causing your periods to be late from stressing about them.

Answer 4

periods are not a predictable thing. Most likely she is just late. I skipped a month before and was fine. It just happens. Is she usually on a strict schedule with it? If she is than maybe you should take a test-if not than don't worry about it. The odds of being pregnant are very slim.

Answer 5

There are any number of reasons she could be late. It is not that uncommon in women. She should take a pregnancy test to rule out pregnancy. If she misses next month's period too she should see a doctor.

Answer 6

Do a home test. It will probably be negative if she has a history of irregularity and you guys are always using condoms. So just do the test and go from there.

Answer 7

There's still typically a 13% chance of getting pregnant when using condoms.

Answer 8

I have to say that if you are really SCARED of her becoming pregnant then I highly suggest she get on some birth control and continue to use condoms or refrain from sex all together and you won't have to worry about this.

Answer 9

Stop being so stupid and asking people on here. Just go get an at home pregnancy test and have her take it. It's that simple.

Answer 10

Well honey if your freaking out so bad go get a test and find out. The dollar stores have them and they work.