I have a problem with my wife, sex is great with her, but she doesn't romance me at all. At least not like we used to when were boyfriend/girlfriend. Now, the ONLY time we have sex is when I initiate it. What I don't get, is that she's like a guy in bed, she comes to orgasm really quick and takes such enjoyment out of it that she's done for the evening leaving me haning; if it's that good, why can't she have me in her thoughts all the time and want it non-stop? If it wasn't for me, we probably would never have sex. Oh, here's the catcher, she wants to have kids....but how do you have kids?? LoL. I try to so hard to romance her, buy her things, send her cute text messages, etc... I know her very well and I know she's not cheating on me. I even told her that if she did she could tell me and I would understand because of the fact we had some rocky times in the past, but we are getting along very well now. I just wish she was r
2006-08-02 01:48:25 · 3 answers · asked by luedvic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have tried to "ignore" her by not making the first move and it just hurt me worse because it's almost as she didn't even notice.
2006-08-02 03:31:20 · update #1
And I even tried, still doing, talking and talking to her. Trust me, I tried everything!
Flowers, cards, etc... She just gets mad at me and says I'm over sensitive. But I'm still the same man that she originally fell in love with. I don't want anybody else but her, and she doens't want anybody else but me...but I'm not truly happy. :o(
2006-08-02 03:32:51 · update #2
well,that's ok!
i think talking talking talking is the best thing!
and try different ways. i mean, don't ask for sex at all and see what would happen.mayb she comes u begging.what i mean is that mayb u don't give her a chance to ask for it.
2006-08-02 02:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit making the first move and see if she does. If she asks why, tell her it's time she stepped up to the plate and took charge for once.
2006-08-02 01:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is having emotional issues! I was sexually abused as a kid and I am the same exact way, except I fake the orgasim so I can be done quicker.. Maybe u could go see a marriage counsler
2006-08-02 01:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋