My boyfriend likes pregnant girls?

Question

So I found out my boyfriend likes pregnant girls. He had pregnant porn and nice pictures of pregnant girls on his computer. I feel like such an a$$. I am so embarassed right now. Why do you think he likes looking at this? Do you think he wants children? I am so confused and just don't know why he would look at this. I thought I was attractive enough for him not to have to look at this, guess I was wrong.

I am now kind of thinking about approaching him about us having a child. (I really want a child and have for quite a while.) Do you think this would be a good idea? Or do you think this would scare him?

i honestly think i have a higher sex drive, I would love to have sex 4+ times a day, and he gets tired on the 2'nd round :(

Answer 1

I think pregnant ladies are VERY sexy, tho I tend to think most women are sexy, unless they have self esteem problems.

I don't know your fella, but I guess he (like most) just likes porn and is going through a "pregnant women are sexy" phase..

...chat with him about it & consider yourself lucky that when you are cooking your baby, your fella will only have eyes for you rather than running after every bit of skinny skirt in a hundred mile radius...

...of course, if he only likes pregnant porn, then he's a freak!!!
;)

Answer 2

Please do not listen to some of the women that are saying he is a freak. There is nothing wrong with porn and women who have a problem with it need to open their minds up a little. Sexual drives differ among people and we do not find 'love' to be a match of drives. Instead, we find the person we love and compensate for the sexual drive by satisfying ourselves. It helps to look at porn and a fetish with a certain type is perfectly normal.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with him. He just has a liking for the look of a pregnant woman. Much like some people like extremely large people or have a fetish for feet. It doesn't mean he does not find you attractive and there is nothing wrong with looking at some porn. He just has a higher sex drive than you do and needs to satisfy himself on occasion. If you do approach him, do not challenge him and say "why are you looking at this smut?" Approach him and say, "I found some pictures on the computer, are you satisfied with our sex life? Is there anything I can do for you?" If he says "NO", just let him be. You know what he is doing and that it is harmless. It's better that he is looking at it on the computer than in real life. So long as he is not cheating on you.

I really do not think it has anything to do with wanting a baby. I do think he will find you EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE when you are pregnant though.

Personally, I think you should let him go and not mention it to him. It is harmless and if you bring it up to him, he is going to want to hide it more or do something outside the house where you will not see him or know he is doing it. You don't want that!

Answer 3

I think a lot of men find pregnant women attractive, but pregnant porn? I don't know about that. I would talk to him about this. If you are not comfortable with your guy looking at porn, any kind of porn, then you should make that clear. I went through this. My husband (awhile back, before we were married) was looking at porn a lot and just didn't see anything wrong with it until I told him how much it bothered me. If he knows how bad it makes you feel and he really cares about you, then he should give it up. I would hold off on trying to get pregnant until you've resolved any of these issues.

Answer 4

Amen Veccster! Really ladies, you need to let this porn thing go. Men are visually stimulated. ITS NATURAL!!!!!
As for finding pregnant women sexy, if I were you, I'd find this very endearing. I of course would not make this a reason for having a baby. But when that time comes for the two of you, you won't have to worry about him NOT finding you attractive. Of all the worries you'll have about being pregnant and becoming a parent, that won't be one of them...Lucky you!
Its not unusual for a man to find a pregnant woman sexy...think about it how wondrous it is that her body is sustaining a life beyond her own. And all the other uniqueness to being pregnant. Swollen vaginal tissue, heightened sexual arousal, swelling breasts, lactation, the way the body changes, booty sticking out more, hips widening. My man is amazed at my body every time I take my clothes off.

Answer 5

You know as a man i can tell you this that the biggest misconception you ladies have when you find out your boyfriend/husband watches porn is that you think that you aren't attractive - porn is no replacement for you or the real thing, they watched porn before they were in a relationship and do after as well. Even though you have sex your boyfriend masturbates just as much as he used to before you did. Sometimes men just want to fulfill their sexual fantasies or relieve sexual tension 'alone' with no strings attached - please dont be embaressed, its natural and all men do it even into late adulthood when they are married, my dad always did and mum knew and was ok with it and they are happy together it does not mean he ever had second thoughts about the relationship. You always say it yourself 'Men are visual creatures' and we are: we are more for what we see and sometimes that is just enough for us in our own little private time to get our member up and managed.

And as for him like pregnant women that is not a problem, it is just a fetish all men have one and its for different things, some men like small women, some like big women, some even like shemale porn or threesomes or lesbian porn - please do not judge your boyfriend on this basis, if he really didnt find you attractive and thought porn could fill his life he wouldn't be with you, He'd spend his whole life alone in his room with his hands dwon his pants. Porn is part of a man's life from pre-puberty and usually gets him through it. You can't expect him to stop watching it.

Some celebrities posed in revealing dresses during late pregnancy because some people just find it so natural, and so do I, its fascinating but that is probably not why he watches it, he just has a fetish. And in this case will find you EVEN MORE attractive when you do choose to have kids.

And dont let these images of pregnant women scare you from having children, I know you must feel it is a weird situation and he will be embaressed if you confront him because of your reaction to what is otherwise completely natural and nothing to worry about. Some people are even in essence 'addicted' to porn - married men masturbate to it - so please don't let it affect your relationship. My girlfriend knows I watch porn and is always saying 'Oh fine, Go Get it From Pamela Anderson Then' or 'How can you find lesbians and Breast implants attractive? that's so gross and fake'. But Guys wish you would just GET OVER IT. We still love you, more than anything, given the choice between you and porn we would always choose YOU! you're still more attractive and importnat to us than that 15-inch screen will ever be, we just need to watch it that's all. We don't even see anything wrong with it! until you ladies start making a big deal of it and we're like 'woah, you think we like that more than you?! and that you're not enough, sorry we're just so used to it, we grew up with it' its what we do in our spare time.

Some couples even watch porn together to get themselves turned on! during intimacy.

Answer 6

you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com

Answer 7

i think you should talk to him and ask him and if you don't get the answer you hope for or expect i think you need to find someone else to have children with or marry you sound like a great person don't limit yourself to one man

Answer 8

I wouldn't want to have a child from a boyfriend who watches porn.. do you?

Answer 9

Go ahead and get pregnant it obviously turns him on He will love you for it.

Answer 10

he has a sexual fetish.

go on & fulfill it if you fancy having pregnant sex with him