* How to Impress, Look Good, and Be Friends (or More) With a Girl *
Here's a good list of how to meet, befriend, and seriously get to know a girl. (Read it all. You'll get something out of it. Believe me, this stuff works!)
Be Clean. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers (notice the "s"), and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl.
Have a good attitude No girl likes to watch a guy put on a show, so Be Yourself. Don't try to be Mr. Popular and impress everyone. Girls dig humble guys.
Show Respect. If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around while you're at it, they'll think twice about letting you go on your way without saying hi.
Have Good Conversations. Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games.
The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say.
All of the numbers above should get a girl to at least notice you. Now, it's time to notice her back (if that makes sense). If she is taking quick glances at you and you both make eye contact, do not, I repeat, do not be the one to look away! If you do, she will think you are timid and cannot hold your gaze. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile and, if you are cocky enough, give her a wink. She'll look away and will probably blush, but do not divert her gaze.
When around her friends, respect them and their ideas and opinions. Always speak highly of her and never, never, never talk trash about her. It will damage her reputation -- and yours.
Be Polite to her Parents. Be kind to everyone, especially them.
Learn to accept defeat. It's not always a bad thing. Take it and learn from it, so that the next time you see an attractive girl, you will know your weaknesses and try to build on those.
Tips
A Great thing to do is show sympathy!. If the girl you really enjoy being around is sad or hurt, give her a hug. Don't just say that you're sorry and you hope she feels better, and don't just give her a 1 second hug (unless she wants one). Hold her -- left arm around her waist, right hand at the base of her neck or holding her head. Let her cry on your shoulder and comfort her. Sometimes, the moment doesn't call for words. Just the sheer fact that you are holding her will make her feel a lot better.
Warnings
If you have followed all the steps above and it just doesn't work out between you and her -- and sometimes it doesn't -- remember that you tried and you at least (hopefully) got her attention. If she dumps you for some other guy, it doesn't mean that you can never talk to each other again or that you can't be friends. Sometimes, good friends are better than a girlfriend or boyfriend. If you hear that her and some other guy are together, be happy for her. Don't be snotty and never talk to her again. Ask how things are going between her and him, and if she really likes him. If you show interest in her, even after you have broken up, she will still enjoy being around you because she probably knows you better and isn't afraid or scared that you will turn her down. If she enjoys your company, hang around. Also, get to know her boyfriend. If you and he are friends, you will get to hang around the girl you love.
One last, very important thing: An old saying goes, "If you really love her, you will learn to let her go."
* How to Tell a Girl How You Feel
Have you ever had a friend you had a crush on? It happens everyday. This is a thorough guide on how to tell that special girl how you feel.
Steps
Break the contact barrier - this is always hard, but it's easier to do it with other people around. "Why is it easier with other people around?" Simply because when hitting (lightly) and poking are done with lots of people around, it's not noticed, and is a very effective flirting device, and breaks the contact barrier easily.
Carry that on for some time, a month is good.
Get your nerve up.
Get her alone. Say something along the lines of "I really need to talk to you about something." She may seem a little confused at first, but that's fine.
Look her in the eyes. Don't undress her in your mind, don't just stare at her breasts, just listen and respond to whatever she says.
Stand close to her, still within the "friendly personal space" range.
If her hair is down, and she has some bangs hanging in her face, brush them aside, and make sure her face is clearly visible.
Tell her you think she's so beautiful in every way, and she means more to you than anyone else on earth.
Proceed if she smiles - that's a good sign!
Take a step towards her, and reach our with whatever hand you write with.
Put it around her waist, until the palm of you hand is over her spine.
Look deep into her eyes, and tell her you love her.
Kiss her on the lips (a peck).
Move your head back.
If she's silent, kiss her again, but more passionately.
There you have it, you just told her how you feel, and kissed her.
Tips
Don't grab her!
Don't feel her up!
Mean it when you tell her you love her.
When kissing, it shouldn't be very wet, but certainly not bone dry, and don't drool all over her.
Warnings
Make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend
If she doesn't feel the same way, DO NOT PURSUE! You could get charged for sexual harassment, and that would ruin your friendship.
* How to Ask for Your Girlfriend's Hand in Marriage *
So, you want to get married? Great! It's a big step, one not to be taken lightly. Here's how to ask your girlfriend's parents (or just her dad) for her hand in marriage.
Evaluate. Is now a good time for you two to get married? Are there any reasons you shouldn't? Think about it through your girlfriend's parents' eyes: would they want their daughter marrying you? If you have only known one another for a week, you may want to hold off on the wedding, or just elope!
Choose the place. Pick a time for you to go to her parents' house, or ask them out to lunch. Do you want your lady around when you ask or would you rather do it alone?
Know what you're going to say! This helps cut down on your nervousness. Talk to yourself for a while, working out the introduction and any points you'd like to make. It's better than just sitting down with them and then...you go blank. Having a little speech prepared practically guarantees you'll make a good impression.
Look good. What parent wants their beloved daughter marrying a total sleaze? Wash yourself that morning, do your hair, put on some nice clothes. Even clean jeans and a button-up shirt look great. Also, brush your teeth.
Begin the meeting politely. Chances are, if you called and asked them for a meeting, they have already speculated what you want. They may already have an inkling as to what you're about to do. So begin politely.
Explain how much you love their daughter, how she has changed your life. Then take a deep breath and say, "I would like your permission to marry her." They may be utterly shocked, or they may smile knowingly and nod. Tell them, "I know this is a big step, and I'm not expecting an answer right this minute. If you'd like some time to think about it, I understand." Then tell them about how you'd like to propose, or show them the ring if you've bought it already. If they WOULD like a few days to discuss it, be polite and when you're ready to leave say, "Well, I better get going so you guys can talk about this! Let me know what you decide. I'd like to ask her soon."
Tips
Prepare yourself for a NO. In a perfect world they would say yes, welcome you to the family, and give you a stack of cash. In reality, they're people with opinions, fears, and dreams, just like you. If they truly don't want you to marry their daughter, ask them why. If their reasoning is wrong, you can gently try to calm their worries, and hope they change their mind. If they don't, be prepared to make one of two choices: 1: Marry her anyway, or 2: Leave her alone.
Warnings
DON'T bring up how rich you are! If your income is something you think could work in your favor, don't shove it in your future in-laws' face. Instead, subtly say, "I know I can take care of her financially, if anything were to happen. She'll always have what she needs."
DON'T be too nervous! Some dads are annoyed by less-than-manly men, and he may decide he really doesn't want you as part of the family.
* How To Propose Marriage
One of the biggest moments in a person's life is when they propose marriage or are proposed to.
Here's how to make your marriage proposal a memorable experience.
Find the right person.
Fall in love.
Know enough about your future in-laws to know if you should ask permission from them first.
Know enough about your beloved so you can create a meaningful experience.
Decide if you are going to purchase the engagement ring before or after you propose marriage.
When purchasing an engagement ring, stay within your budget or financial capability.
Pay attention to timing. Don't plan on proposing marriage when he or she is stressed or overwhelmed.
Pick a memorable place, song, or occasion such as where you first met, or first kissed, etc.
Set a romantic tone.
Keep it fun.
Keep your marriage proposal simple.
If you are thinking of tying the ring to the end of a kite string or fishing line, be certain that your intended has a great sense of humor and that you know how to tie a good knot!
Make sure you don't lose the engagement ring if you've purchased one. Some folks hide an engagement ring so well that even they can't find it.
Tips:
Be prepared to have your best-laid marriage proposal plans fall apart.
Focus more on the moment than on the engagement ring and other externals surrounding your marriage proposal.
Try not to give your plans away by showing how nervous you are.
What You Need:
A plan
A location
An engagement ring
Lots of Love
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