I think people become a Goth because they were basically outcasts in same way. They want to be different or special. Remember that when we are born most of us were at the centre of somebodies world - our parents. They do everything for us and we grow up believing that we are special, worthy of somebody's love and attention. However, at school, our first exposure to the outside world, this starts to change- some of us get picked on, others get ignored and some, the lucky minority, become very popular. We start to realise that we are not the centre of this world, merely a small part of it and most people can learn to accept this. We find ways of adapting - such as overachieving, tarting up, doing well at sports, etc. Some, however, can't adapt so easily. I think many mental health problems - depression, anxiety, etc - stem from this realisation. As a result, some people become angry, bitter, resentful at the world, and fuelled by an over active imagination, bad experiences at school, a love of horror films, they become goths.
It is no coincidence that Goths look like vampires - rebellious mythic creatures that have magical powers and prey on human blood. Vampires are special, noteworthy but dangerous beings, something which the goth aspires to become. Most of us have had vindictive fantasies at some time. Guys often tend to imagine themselves easily defending off their nemesis with the strength of superman or with the agility and power of Bruce Lee, etc. Girls might see themselves stealing their rivals hunky boyfriend. Goths take this fantasy to the next level by dressing up to look like a vampire.
Goths hang out together because they can identify with their group more easily. They are more intimidated by others, unless in a group of other goths.
2006-08-02 00:14:45
·
answer #1
·
answered by MrSandman 5
·
19⤊
6⤋
why do you dress and behave the way you do? You probably want to look nice or a special way when you are in public. You dress based on the way you want others to perceive you. The gothic subculture is no different. They want others to perceive them in a certain way. They want to be noticed. Perhaps (just a theory) they did not receive the positive attention in thier lives that they craved and needed, so to get any attention, even if it is negative, is better than none.
Heck, I'm 40 now, but I can guarantee that if goth was in when I was young, I would have checked out the scene for myself. I'm not into vampires and all that stuff, but the attire makes a pretty bold statement.
2006-08-01 23:57:28
·
answer #2
·
answered by Shamus 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
You become a goth if you love that kinda music and like wearing dark colors. Goths are not evil, do not worship Satan, are not always sad, are normal people who hang out with their friends, no matter if they're goth or not. Trust me, my best friend is goth and I'm not! It's just a way of living life that most people do not understand...
2006-08-01 23:53:14
·
answer #3
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
It's nice to have people to hang out with who have the same tastes that you do. Some people like to make an effort to fit in with that particular group. Doesn't matter what the group is jocks, goths, skaters....
2006-08-01 23:52:16
·
answer #4
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
many times I in basic terms answer tech questions, yet i will provide this a shot, seeing as how i grow to be as quickly as married to a woman with gothic inclinations. the component of being goth, to place it basically, is basically to be somebody and stand pleased with something of the gang. even no count if it extremely is in a uniform vogue. some human beings as grow to be goth basically for marvel fee. they prefer the attention they get carry of from donning white make-up, black eyeliner, and black nail polish. some do exactly it for interest. They sense as though society has overlooked them, and additionally they take drastic steps (referring returned to the make-up) to charm to interest to themselves. i desire this solutions your question.
2016-12-14 18:03:36
·
answer #5
·
answered by ? 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
whats the point of asking such a dumb question? dont worry about what other people do.
2006-08-01 23:50:00
·
answer #6
·
answered by Ms. L 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
They want to look like witches and be ugly.
2006-08-01 23:50:00
·
answer #7
·
answered by Stewie Griffin 4
·
0⤊
1⤋