I've heard many of times that a woman pefers a man with a personality over good looks. So are you saying you would choose a guy who is unattractive over a guy with super model looks just by personality alone?
2006-08-01 23:35:45 · 21 answers · asked by gymfreak 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am a woman.. and here's the truth about that....
A man who has personality, charm, a caring and loving spirit.. A man who has warmth, the ability to commit, love of children and the ability to be a good partner.. is the most important factor in deciding wether or not we keep a man around.
The dating process... well, that's where the looks come in.
You can't look at a person and decide wether or not they are a good person. You don't look at a man and know that he has a good personality.. so, the basic human instinct kicks in , and when we go out on a date with you.. we pick you because you're good looking. From there we decide what you're like as a person.
So, in the beginning, you're picked because you're physically attractive, but you're kept around.. because you're a good person.
2006-08-01 23:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Imani 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I too have heard this. And yet there are some very funny, kind, considerate men out there that are less fortunate in the looks dept without women.
I guess when we say that, (what I mean anyway) it's more like he has to have both?...
You have to be physically attracted to someone to think of them romantically - all there is to it. That's just nature. But as well as all that - he must have the heart and mind to go with it. A guy doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous, but he DOES have to be kind and funny and charming in order to keep a gal.
I hope I explained that well enough.
2006-08-02 06:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by daisylane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...personality is the main thing that attracts me to a guy, however, he has to be somewhat attractive to light up fancy...also, it all depends on where you are going to meet this guy...if i'm at a club it is more for looks than personality, but if i were to go to a dating room (sort of speaking) then it would be based on personality, but overall, a guy may have the best personality in the world, but he has to at least stir up your physical nature a little bit, otherwise there would be no kissing, etc. to lead eventually to a great relationship and marriage... By the way, my mom used to think dating for personality was the only way to go, but when it got down to kissing the guy she could not do it because she was not necessarily attracted to him...
2006-08-02 06:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by bearluver_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, what is attractive for me has nothing to do with super model looks... Honestly, I am a woman... But I do not like unattractive men, unattractive means someone that does not attract you, why do you choose someone like that? Not logical...
2006-08-02 06:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by kichka_2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. and I am honest.. I am 29 and my husband is 49... looks are going a lot faster as age progresses but I won't stop loving him! His personality is what I fell in love with. We met online in 1995 before the internet dating craze.. I didn't see his picture right away. So, yes, being a woman, I can honestly answer your question as yes!
2006-08-02 06:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am a woman and honestly, the guy who treats me right will very likely end up for keeps than this hunk who is probably full of himself. I want a man who will worship the flow I step on and frankly, do you see a hunk do that?
2006-08-02 06:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by tomnjerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! No - Women are after 1 thing only " Security " .. translated than means " Ca£$h " Attrtactive women ( like myself !! ) can afford to be choosey... but the guy could be as funny as a Kangaroo on acid - but if he didnt have the money - its bye bye hunny...
2006-08-02 06:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Model guys usually are egotisic. So no, I wouldn't chosse the model looks guy. Rather the one with the personality.
2006-08-02 06:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, yes I would. Looks only last so long. I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with someone than just be around them because they look good.
2006-08-02 06:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Personality is more important than looks. And I don't even like guys whit supermodel looks. Some of them look so feminine. No offense.
2006-08-02 06:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋