Today is my Birthday.. I turned 27! The funny thing is that most of my family members forgot.. Please, can you cheer me up, by just wishing me a happy birthday?? I feel soo lonley. Come to think of it, my boyfriend didn't even wish me a happy birthday? Miust I talk to him again? advise on that
2006-08-01 23:34:49 · 32 answers · asked by Mamamia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Happy Birthday sweetie, and enjoy the day. Please don't be angry at anyone who forgot your birthday, but understand that sometimes life gets in the way of the important things. I had a birthday like that once, and everyone had forgotten about it. I realized that while it is important to others, it is more important to me. So, now I celebrate my birthday by going somewhere or doing things that I want to do. If someone forgets my birthday now, it doesn't bum me out because I'm having fun anyway.
2006-08-01 23:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by william m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday
2006-08-02 06:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by sexyfunfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awful to be disappointed on your birthday. Some people are really organised and always remember and others, like me mean well and even get the card and everything and then forget to post it!!!
To you and all the people I've disappointed through forgetfulnesss and disorganisation.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
( as for your boyfriend... at worst he's thoughtless at best , he may have a suprise for you later... if it's the first.. try bigger hints next year!)
2006-08-01 23:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question> did u ever forgot anybodys birthday,or special day for them.
Happy birthday to you, have a nice evening .
just be relax and take deep breaths when u get that questions in mind. u will be improving ur power to absorb the abnormalities happening in life.they happen very often.
God by this thing have gave u chance to be strong in u r selves.
be normal to every one and enjoy the present moments of the xpecial day,than thinking and getting disturb of what has happened and waste more of the time on this day.
go on with flying colours for the balance time u have got.or this will also move and wil be in vain for u.
2006-08-01 23:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by mukesh a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday! Maybe they have a surprise planned for this evening or are playing a practical joke.
I know what its like to be forgotten on your birthday too. When I was at Boarding school my family would remember but everyone at school would forget, it really hurt when one week later was another girls b'day and hers was remembered every year! I can completely sympathise.
2006-08-01 23:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy B-day to ya kid (Big Hug, kiss on the cheek [I am a married man]). Sorry to hear its been going so crappy for you so far.
As far as family goes, let me tell ya something. I learned a few years back that it takes more then the blood in someone's veins to make family. I am very close to my wife's family, and would go to war and back for any member (she, her mother, her grandparents on her mother's side, her brother, and his son/my precious nephew). Yet, I have six biological siblings who I have not seen since Thanksgiving, and the only reason I saw them then was my biological brother's son got married. In fact, as I think of it, today is this "brother's" B-day too, and I am sorry you have to share yours with such a pompous ***. Guess what I am telling you kid is that if they don't think enough of you to remember you on your B-day, then they aren't worth you getting upset about it, because they are not really family.
As far as your boyfriend, then I would have a serious talk with him about not remembering your special day! As long as you can honestly say you remembered his (assuming he has had his already this year) then he better be able to give you a good answer, or I would drop this bum fast! Sounds to me like you may have a few users clinging on to you kid, and, just maybe, it is time for you to reevaluate relationships.
It crushes me to hear your story! Here's another hug for ya kid! Go out and enjoy yourself today, and don't let those other losers get you down! I have been where you're at kid, and have spent many a B-days wondering why. Finally, one day I figured out those people were not worth it (both biological family and so called "friends" who only call when they need a favor) and cut my emotional ties with them. Gotta tell ya, not only did it lift a huge burden off my back, but it also gave me something I had not had up until that point, SELF RESPECT!! Happy B-day to ya Kid!!
2006-08-01 23:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday to you my hun! May you have many, many more happy returns to come! To really cheer yourself up is to cheer someone instead. That would feel more fullfiling in itself, coz you're giving something and not receiving it. But when you give, blessings are multiplied. Remember, your attitude can make or break you. Lots of love and hugs and kisses to you.
2006-08-01 23:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by bond_babe_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wish you a very Happy Birthday :-)
2006-08-01 23:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by fojo81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday!
And here's a bday joke for you.
" A blonde walks into a library, slams down a book, and says this is the worst book I ever read, it has no plot, and is just filled with characters! The librarian looks at her, and says 'Oh, your the one who checked out the phone book!'"
:-)
2006-08-01 23:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by deus82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy birthday the day is still early maybe they have a surprise party or something nice planned 4 u
2006-08-01 23:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by annemarie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋