2006-08-01 23:21:42 · 19 answers · asked by janpet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
throughout a life time a persons libido ebbs and flows... in other words sometimes they want more sex and sometimes less sex...
men often feel less like sex if they have a lot of concerns, particularly money or work concerns seem to affect how sexy they feel.
just be you and love your man any way... if you are in need of some loving and he is not up to it ask him if he would hold you, or just cuddle you... and kiss you... cause you are missing the good feelings of sex and you understand he doesnt feel like sex but you do have needs too and you'd like him to hold you...
this is a very common problem in relationships..
2006-08-03 12:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my wife. We always had great sex, but not often enough. I can only say that you have to take the lead. Always be open to your partners advances. If you feel like you need a shower first tell your partner that you need them to wash your back, and other places. Set your partner up for romance by being spontanious. Start sexual relations with your partner when ever or where ever. Let your partner know how sexy they are to you and you should get a responce. If you don't succeed with what I told you than your partner probably has a low sex drive, and while that is normal for your partner, you will have to learn to accept that.
2006-08-01 23:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by william m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All honestly if your husband was like me he would want it every night.
But dosent like to make the first move .
i wait 4 my wife to move on me because then i know she really wants to do it and then the sex is so much better.
if we did it every night it would just be get on get off sort of thing so i wait and she probally waits and nobody gets anywhere.
so all i can say is make the move anytime you want it he wont say no.
2006-08-01 23:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by spudster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may choose someone, who can make you satisfy. it's very true that the life is short but there are so many things to do. why you will kill your enjoyable life time ? you are giving enjoyment to your husband, now you need more so, no way out but find someone. i think it's your legal human right.
2006-08-01 23:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by shafiq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by offering massages. You could try to do an exotic dance for him, and may be some stripping. You could try and light candles, turn the lights off and play soft music.
2006-08-01 23:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send sexy sms to him while he's at work. Make him feel horny with your sexy messages, By the time he reach home from work, he will be eating you first instead of his dinner. Good luck.
2006-08-01 23:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him so without one word. Act like a lover, wear sexy lingerie and do everything you know he likes. I assure you you will have more frequent love sessions.
2006-08-01 23:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by want2know007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to have sex with me, and see what he says.
2006-08-01 23:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Neal J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the routine..Do something special and unique for him..Surprise him..Be sweet and do favors..
2006-08-01 23:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip a viagra in his orange juice.
2006-08-01 23:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋