2006-08-01 22:17:54 · 18 answers · asked by jammyjam80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no way. what if it was the other way round? that would hurt right? maybe we all have our little fantasies but we wouldn't have the feeling to 'WANT' to go and cheat on our partners. just ain't right.
[to jermaine d] : it's 'you're' not 'your'. speak good english yourself, and don't correct people if you can't.
2006-08-01 22:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by this_is_a_bomb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most do have the thoughts cross their mind -- more often an urge to take action that would be cheating rather than to cheat! Having a stray thought of a sexual natureis "natural", but having thoughts about how and why to cheat your mate is "perverse" and usually indicative of another, deeper mental/emotional/spiritual problem.
If you are troubled by the frequency or intensity of stray thoughts you should take steps to reduce them -- a good way is by sublimation (substituting other -- but healthy -- activity: listening to classical music, weight-lifting, reading, letter-writing, cold showers, and so on).
Remember that there is no disgrace in being hit with temptation -- even Christ hiimself was subjected to great temptation. The danger is in "entertaining" the temptation, which is done in one of two ways: (a) by giving in to it; or (b) by nourishing it as a private fantasy. The second course -- fantasizing -- seems innocent but is insideous in that it corrupts your mind even without the physical act being performed. (The same goes for fantasizing about violence!)
2006-08-01 22:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the thought, when the guy cheated on me i wanted to pay him back. If you really care about your girl, DON'T do it! Tell her what you want or thrive from her in a relationship. Try to talk with her. The biggest mistake is to cheat, (you could get shot by her or the girl your cheating on her with!) Think about it!!
I never did it though!
Good Luck!!
2006-08-01 22:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by dbw7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I never do. Riien satisfies me more than I'll ever deserve! lol I also have such a strong connection with him emotionally and through love that I wouldn't even want to consider it. It wouldn't appeal to me because real love (as you know) is wonderful and sex is more than just sex in a loving relationship. Whether it's making love or just that rough sex...there's still a beautiful connection there! :)
2006-08-02 21:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - not after I was cheated on by a woman I loved deeply.... that pain was brutal, and I would never want to inflict that upon someone else!!
2006-08-01 22:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-08-01 22:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would said that almost everyone got this thought now or then. We are just being human. As long as we don't cause life, heart others feeling or get yourself to jail.
2006-08-01 22:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thought only but yet to do coz can't bring myself to betray my hubby. However, if he did done so later, I will did the same. An eye for an eye..
2006-08-01 22:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everyone has fantasy sexual desires. I bet most people fantasize being with another sexual partner while having sex with their mate. I do and so does my wife. As long as its not acted upon, there's nothing wrong with it.
2006-08-02 00:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would never think of cheating on my wife. I ask myself one question, how would I feel if it was her who cheated on me? I would feel devistated so I know she would feel just that way too.
2006-08-01 22:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋