I've been in 5 long-term relationships, but have never been proposed to. Am I not marrying material? I'm sad.
2006-08-01 22:16:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't be sad - its obvious these weren't the right guys!! The person you're meant to be with will propose to you, no question!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-08-01 22:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 8⤊ 3⤋
Well it depends. Have you looked at your relationships? By that i meant....do u know why u broke up? If you know the source then i am sure it's not about you. The other person might not be ready. And there is no such things as unmarried material! LOL Unless you are a nun or a priest. and event that...priest do marry! Secretely of course.
So relax...life is not all about getting married. It's all about being happy. As long as you are happy, why would u bother getting married? Or you are just following what society is pressurizing you to do-since everyone gets married, you have to get married...which is fine, but then think again; do you really have a free choice if u just follow what other people tell you what to do.
Unless of course you really think that getting married will make you very happy, then in that case, you should also just relax, because time will come. The only limiting factor is age; but then again people do get married at 75 years old of even older! ;):) so relax is all i can say...the right guy or girl will be there someday! And that day u'll never see it coming! :) You will only be suprised by it! my motto: life is impermanent so everything is impermanent-so in u r case there is an end for everything...there will be an end to you "non proposed" long term relationships! :)
Cheers
Wish you the best of health and happiness!
2006-08-02 05:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by tramaroson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know since i don't have a clue as to who you are. I assume you are a woman.. if so then i understand as to why you may be doubting yourself as marriage material... it is hard to say why you have not been proposed to... i would suggest that you take a good hard look in the mirror and ask yourself a few simple questions..... such as do i satisfy my partners needs for sex???? and am i too needy, or clingy? am i trustworthy? or maybe you have too high of standards set for the men you have been in serious relationships with.. Or maybe there is nothing wrong with you at all... maybe it has been the men in your life who are screwed up some way or another.... but good luck and i would love to hear what you come up with as a possible reason as to why you have not been proposed to by one of 5 men you have seriously been involved with....
2006-08-02 05:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a blessing in disguise sometimes. There are many marriage ended up divorce or unhappy. Marriage is also not a pool of roses. This just that you Mr Right is not arrive yet. Be patient or If the next time you meet a real good man, you may bring up to him. This is a world man and woman are equal. If we keep our face, sometime we lose much more. So next time when chance hit upon you, catch it.
2006-08-02 05:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can there be anything wrong with you if you yearn to settle down? The only thing wrong here are the guys that you've been out with. They aren't the marrying material. You are perfectly fine, girl. You just need to find the right man!
2006-08-02 05:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one day you will come across someone, so dont be sad, even i have the same problem, only the married men proposes me, and i am not interested to break up the family.
2006-08-02 05:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by khepo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true. The best things come to those who wait. It's better to marry someone in time and have a happy marriage. then to marry just anyone and be divorced the next month or so.
2006-08-02 05:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mike A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a person who felt like you, got frantic, made wrong decision and caught up in a wrong marriage. I don't think one needs to be frantic about this, for every one on this earth, somebody is waiting. It is just that you have not seen or heard of that person. But also check, do you need that person in your life? Chances are that he may enter your life and encroach on your freedom (which may not be of importance to you at this stage, when you are feeling this way) and you may feel you were okay without it.
2006-08-02 05:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Raju M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be worried about getting married so much, it will come when everything is just right for you. Enjoy your life and enjoy what great moments you have in your relationships no matter how many there may be.
2006-08-02 05:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not propose to him?
dont listen to those ppl who tells you to wait for him to come to u.. if u believe that you're gonna be single the rest of ur life... try being more open to a wider variety of guys instead of the type those 5 guys are... i suppose they are all the same type of guys who arent looking for anything long term/commitment
2006-08-02 05:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine on a rainy day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS NOT TRUE . YOU JUST HAVEN'T FOUND THE RIGHT GUY THAT'S ALL.MAYBE YOUR NOT READY TO GET MARRIED AND THE GUYS KNOW THAT TOO. THERE COULD BE LOTS OF REASONS. I WOULDN'T WORRY ABOUT IT. I'M YOUR TIME WILL COME WHEN IT IS RIGHT .MATTER HOW MANY MEN YOU DATE . BUT IF YOU FILL LIKE YOUR READY TO FIND THE MAN AND GET MARRIED . I WOULDN'T SPEND MORE THE TWO YEARS WITH SOMEONE IF THEY HAVE NOT ASK YOU TO MARRY THEM GO ON HE THERE SOME WERE.
2006-08-02 05:38:33 · answer #11 · answered by kathleen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋