I have a3 month old babe, as the fther of the babe run away , ignore the babe, when I was 8 month pregnant I met my collegue , he been there for me , helping me to get through my tough time. the day I gave birth , he was there for me, at the hospital. I am an immigrant to canada, I wasn't have anyone to help me, and he cook for me and help me. Now I kind fall in love with him. He is in Love with me too, the question is. He want to make love to me, but I refuse because i am breastfeeding, IS it Ok to make sex while I am breastfeed the babe, which is not his?
2006-08-01 21:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by tangind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please tell me that you don't mean WHILE you are breastfeeding?? Hope not.. multi-tasking is one thing but......Anyway, in answer to your Q., No. you shouldn't sleep with him. You don't love him..I can see it in your words. You are grateful to him.. but it sounds to me like you wish that the two of you could be friends.. But you feel like you should because of what he's done for you right? And you probably don't have the means to move out and care for your baby?? So what. One day you will. Tell him you are not ready for sex..Tell him that you need time to figure out your feelings. THEN you will be able to see what kind of man he really is. If he is patient with you,and doesn't expect sex in exchange for his " help", Who knows? Maybe you will want to be with him. Otherwise, If you don't want to have sex, don't... And breastfeeding has nothing to do with it. I don't know why I went into all of this. Probably all you wanted to know was if sex can interfere with breastfeeding. No. But the fact that you had to ask is scary. You have much to learn. Good Luck to you!
2006-08-01 22:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Before having sex with ANYONE, they should submit to AIDS, Hepatitis and STD tests! I have never heard that having intercourse during the months/years a person breastfeeds is harmful; however, if you contract one of the above diseases, those could be passed to your child that is being breastfed. Also, just because someone was there for you during this rough period doesn't mean he is a nice guy. Perhaps he was just hoping for sex. Besides, you say you are "kind of" in love with him. That's not like being in love. You can also get pregnant again, even while breastfeeding and then if he hits the road, you'll have TWO children to feed.
2006-08-01 22:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by peacefulcave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can have sex while breastfeeding.it has nothing to do with the baby or milk. so yeah the only thing thats bad is if he loves sucking on nipples might not like the sour milk.so go ahead and have sex and have no worries.
2006-08-01 21:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am amarried women and see no problem.but yes ur b/f would certainly like to drink ur milk -do let him but -only after the babe is fed to satsfaction--all the best.
2006-08-01 22:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by jayjagjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine physically, and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. The only thing left is how you feel. If you aren't comfortable doing it, don't.
2006-08-01 21:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course
2006-08-02 04:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by fallenbuckshot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly fine to have sex while brest feeding.
(it might be a little more injoyable if you waite till the baby is asleep though)
2006-08-01 22:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by macoleman63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make sex with him after baby eat or baby will get squished..baby should always be in the other room before mommy boo-boom..to young to see so much..lol
2006-08-01 22:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can have sex its not bad but use protecton so that another babe doesnt form
2006-08-01 21:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by aryanz_010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can....if he is giving support and taking care of you then dont wait..just love him.....and u can participate in sex....breastfeeding is not a problem.....
2006-08-01 22:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋