We have been trying for over six years. I have gone to my ob and nothing is wrong w/me, I even had surgery to make sure. But now my husband says he is not ready. I don't know what I should do.. We are both 31 and my time is ticking away. I need advice..
2006-08-01 21:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by trouble comes a knockin 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
It sounds as if he's scared now that it may be him that's the problem. Thus why he wants to stop and says "he's not ready". Has he gone to a doctor? Have you discussed what you should do to your ob/gyn? Take your husband with you next time you go and ask this question in front of him. Sometimes ob/gyn can reassure a man better than his woman can. He may feel like a failure. No matter what reassure him.
2006-08-02 02:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some lyrics to reflect on:
All I Wanna Do Is Make Love To You Lyrics
by Heart
It was a rainy night when he came into sight
Standing by the road
no umbrella
no coat
So I pulled up along side and I offered him a ride
He accepted with a smile so we drove for a while
I didn't ask him his name
this lonely boy in the rain
Fate tell me it's right
is this love at first sight
Please don't make it wrong
just stay for the night
All I wanna do is make love to you
Say you will
You want me too
All I wanna do is make love to you
I've got loving arms to hold on too
So we found this hotel
it was a place I knew well
We made magic that night. Oh
he did everything right
He brought the woman out of me
so many times
easily
And in the morning when he woke all I let him was a note
I told him 'I am the flower you are the seed'
We walked in the garden we planted a tree
Don't try to find me
please don't you dare
Just live in my memory
you 'll always be there
All I wanna do is make love to you
One night of love was all we knew
All I wanna do is
Just food for thought. Rock on!!!
2006-08-02 18:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by True Rocker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah keep trying but I know for the husband it should be time to put in extra work. I mean when we tried I hit each time and I know it was a great time. You can try on that particular day of the month. Each time for me I was going easy and it happend. 31 yes you want to have some soon because you don't want your kids at graduation and they be like is that your grandma coming this way? :) But make sure you continue trying and not sure how true this is but different positions may help.
Good Luck
2006-08-02 04:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 31, you still have some time. Consider some type of counseling or a good friend that can help you understand why you're husband is not ready. I really wish you the best.
2006-08-01 21:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's kidding himself he doesn't really want one because he is scared it'll never happen. You need to talk and maybe get some help. Did he have checks to make sure there was nothing wrong with him?
Good luck for the future xxx
2006-08-01 22:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep tring and have sex on your ovulation date and after havind sex dont move for just 30 min and rise your legs somehow up on any thing on the bed
to calcute your ovulation date your mc(from the biging of period until the next on) - 14
means if its 28 days then your ovulation is in day 14 from the begingi of your period you shoud have to try for baby from day 12to 17 ot 18 days
2006-08-01 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by omnoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pressure him into anything he doesnt want to do, he will grow to resent it. as for having a baby maybe if you stop trying youll get pregnant. try to relax and dont worry about it. iv heard that can help
2006-08-01 21:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by prizzma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to have your husband's sperm checked.
2006-08-02 00:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it done, i mean do what you have to do before your clock runs out,
2006-08-01 21:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick him when your on your period.. 1st or 2nd day..
2006-08-01 21:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by emanon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋