love after marriage is acceptable??

Question

i love my hubby a lot and i am very very happy with him now after 7 years of my marriage my husband's brother became very close to me and he also started loving me eventhough he is married. Do i need to maintain that relation or shall i stop loving him because of family relations.

Answer 1

i think u'd better stop coz u'll be a reason for a family breaking down.

dont love any1 but ur hubby,specially that u said ur happy with him.

be honest with him and don't give ur heart to any1. and dont play games coz that is really cheep!

good luck!

Answer 2

Your brother-in-law is in love with you just for sexual pleasures and nothing else, I assure you this. The reason? Because you people can meet very often the way he wants and there are very few chances of any of your family member doubting you.

Now, after giving 7 precious years of your life faithfully to your hubby, you are in love with him and moreover you are very happy with him. If you really love your hubby and care about him, then please stop all the communication between you and your brother-in-law. Just imagine, how your hubby's heart will be broken when he will come to know about your relationship with his brother. On one side, his brother and on the other it's you. He won't be able to believe in any relationships anymore.

Please do not ruin your and your hubby's happy life just to satisfy your brother-in-law's sexual pleasures.

Answer 3

Stop of course, this is a disaster waiting to happen and will destroy more than your marriage, it will destroy his marriage and their entire family, messing with brothers is a HUGE no no. You love your hubby and are happy so just do that, its a lot more than a lot of people get.

Answer 4

I would suggest you to tell your husband that his brother is not such a good person (as he is flirting with his sister in law). Or do you want your marriage to end just cause that man can not control his actions and feelings? Both of you are married, you are relatives, so it's a forbidden thing (the one he is trying to get).

Answer 5

while I was in college and university I sometimes thought "is there hardly any arrenged marriage taking place now-a- days in our society?"almost all of my friends had happy relationships and even their family too knew about that. Many of my relatives married their fiance/fiancee. I think,most of thetotal marriage ceremonies that I atteneded and is attending are love marriage. Of which India you are talking about?

Answer 6

YES, love at any stage is acceptable , provided IT IS LOVE & NOT LUST, you can love your hubby's brother as if he is your own,
remember sangeetha, that in indian tradition BHABHI is as good as your mother, explain it to your hubby's brother,
and if it is from your side also , then dont care, dont bother yourself by what people are saying (though i feel it is INCEST,IMMORAL relationship).
dont stop loving your hubbys brother, but dont lose your dignity.
(and keep in mind that kids are good observer, what will happen if your daughter (if any) repeats the history when she is in her teens?

Answer 7

what you are doing is very risky and not advisable. people get these feelings because of proximity but do not have to develop into fully blown love life. you are married remember? and you say happy and love your husband? then what business do you have with your brother-in-law?

Answer 8

You should stick with your hubby, Obviously his brother is a cheater and is makeing you one also, ( by choice of course) Keep your morals and integrity and stay right with God and be faithful to your hubby. Why would you want to be in a relationship with a cheater???????????????????????

Answer 9

.....No, you must stop what you felt for the brother of your husband,because in the eyes of others it is immoral

Answer 10

sangeetha! dont involve with your hubbys brother.it will ruin your life