2006-08-01 21:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by sexy_mom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No such thing as fast, it takes as long as it takes, here is some stuff that might help though.
It takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything, its what you do with the time that counts. if you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. you have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.
take care of yourself physically, make great meals just for you, don't start eating junk just because its just you eating it, read some great books, listen to great music, DANCE (nobody can be sad when they dance) even if its home by yourself, shop, spend time with friends and family, volunteer in your community with people or dogs if you prefer. do the things you gave up for your relationship. soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again. good luck, be patient with yourself, and remember it will get better!
2006-08-01 21:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pooi Dappersmom, cut it out with the angel's advice...
I got the perfect solution... you want fast?
Chew a tube of mentos, then
Mix 2 portions of tequila with 5 portions of Vodka
Chew 1 dried red chilli
Finally crack a bottle of champagne and drink 1/2 a bottle at once.
That should do the trick.
2006-08-01 21:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is an impossible task but for hum ens nothing is impossible .
Don't think about that issue and about that person , divert Ur mind in some creative work and keep busy doing work , don't sit idle ,play games , listen fast music , don't listen soft or romantic music , interact as lot may be possible
2006-08-01 22:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by chetanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out to new placers , not your old ones that bring back memorys , go have fun enjoy life .
take a holiday , , have a holiday fling , as we say here , sex sea and sand for 2 weeks woooooooo
2006-08-02 00:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by annewithafan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax go for a disco ..dance drink have fun.. if one is gone there are many in this world.. there is always a sunrise after a dark night.. so go on find your soulmate he is some where out there searching for u...
2006-08-01 22:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. your beautiful. i know it just by the way u talk. whoever dumped was making a big mistake.
Also try saying the word "fpoon"
it helps i promise
2006-08-01 21:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not an easy process.... time will heal all the wounds... but for the mean time focus yourself on other things that will not let you remind the things you've done before together..
2006-08-01 21:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by selle_ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time really...but bonking someone else will help pass it and take your mind off it
2006-08-01 21:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no quick solution. It has to mend in its on time.
2006-08-01 21:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
study self-esteem
2006-08-01 21:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋