my ex called me an told me he love me i love him to but i also love my boyfriend an i dont kno what to do
2006-08-01 20:54:43 · 6 answers · asked by shan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't truly love two guys at the same time. You may love them differently and for different reasons. Think about how your future would be with each of them. Which would you rather have?
2006-08-01 20:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so I've been in this vicious circle before, for years actually. What I've learned is that you can't be in love with two guys at the same time. You can love them but your not truly in love with either of them. You probably aren't truly happy in your current relationship so your wondering if the grass is gonna be greener the second time around with your ex. Well I've been there and its not. Your obviously not truly in love with either of them otherwise you wouldn't be second guessing anything, you would know who you really loved and would be with that person no questions asked. Do yourself a favor and get away from both of them. Date other people and I gaurntee that you will find that you don't love either one of them. I use to torment myself for years with the back and forth I love this one , no I love that one. Its a hard thing to get out of because you do truly believe that you love them both, but the only way to know for sure is to stay away from both of them for a while (like 6 mo or more). Then if you really love one of them you won't be able to live without him and you won't second guess yourself. I found out that they were great guys but I wasn't in love with them it was just familiar territory and I knew that they loved me and I wouldn't get hurt or rejected that way. Even if you take none of this advise I wish you all the best. It's a really hard thing to get out of but you really need to get away from them and find out the truth for yourself so you don't waste precious years of your life like I did. GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!
2006-08-02 04:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u understand the meaning "ex"
2006-08-02 04:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is an ex for a reason, so move on.
2006-08-02 03:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by G.V. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the bf u love the most
2006-08-02 03:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by MiK3 =D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for help with someone you care.
2006-08-02 03:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋