Have you had good lovers and lousy ones? What is the difference? Is it physical abilities, athletic bodies vs. out of shape ones?
Can you tell by looking at somebody if they would be a good or bad lover?
2006-08-01 20:43:51 · 18 answers · asked by Dave 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
would you be a good one or not?
2006-08-01 20:53:23 · update #1
A good partner takes care of their partners needs as well as their own. Observe your partners physical and verbal responses. Don't be offended if they give you direction.
It is probably things like mutual respect, playfulness, curiosity and respecting a lover's boundaries.
You can never really tell until you get to know a person.
Attractive people can make lousy lovers and unattractive people can make great lovers.
2006-08-01 20:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a bad lover.. luckily since then had a good lover. It wasn't the size, shape abilities etc at all ... it was the willingness to communicate.. learn together what eachother likes, accepting of limitations or things that one doesn't enjoy and leaving it alone, being willing to talk about what is good, bad, not really into etc.
As well.. kissing without being sloppy, but really getting to you helps.
2006-08-01 20:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by walkietalkiethree2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell by looking at them, but YES there are good lovers and sloppy, nasty humping partners. It's not the body type, it's more how a man listens and understands my body. Practice makes perfect~!
2006-08-01 20:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Carol R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good loving comes from being in harmoney and reciprocating love. When you combine these facotrs then you will have perfect lovemaking.
It does not mean some one lays there like a dead body while the other person is doing all the effort
2006-08-01 20:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The one thing that makes for a great sex partner is PASSION. Nothing else matters beyond the sheer will to pleasure. And, without passion, nothing else will make such a difference.
2006-08-01 21:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good sex partner (whether male of female) knows how to make their partner satisfied before, during and after sex.
nuf sed. Peace.
2006-08-01 20:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION is KEY!!
You could be a fat, out of shape, not well endowed guy but be the most fantastic lover!!
It all depends on communication and being open minded.
2006-08-01 20:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes a great sex partner?
A wet turtle sandwich....
2006-08-01 21:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by jesusisdead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually enthusiastic and curious people tend to be great lovers as they are eager to please their partner in bed and are always experimenting with something new.
2006-08-01 20:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one can be a great lover if he understands his partner's requirements and satisfies her
2006-08-01 20:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by cdash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋