Take each day as it comes.
Then the days will become weeks.
The weeks months and eventually the months become years.
You won't be able to have perpective on this situation for a while-but when you do you will probably find that without the actual relationship happening you will be able to see the wrong things about the relationship.
You will grow from this-and the direction you grow is entirely up to you.
You won't feel this for a while-but eventually you will become excited about life again-remembering things you used to do before the relationship,and taking pleasure in them again.
Hang in there good buddy, it's happened before to millions of us and it will happen millions times more.
2006-08-01 20:48:49
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answered by Scotty Wrotem 4
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There will never be a easy way out, I broke up with my guy of 8 years. Sometimes the memories just floods back, I had been single more than 2 years now. In actual fact, I feel free. It does take time. Take care.
2006-08-01 22:26:08
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answered by crashonme 3
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you look as though a stunning and being concerned guy and to be basic she does not deserve somebody such as you. i'm sorry to assert that she is cheating on you, the clues are too obvious. i comprehend it is going to harm you lots on account which you do honestly love her lots, you gave her distinctive opportunities and are very affected person. in spite of the shown fact which you may desire to think of two times approximately marrying her, if she would be able to't stay committed now, she on no account will do. She has lied to you or perhaps after being found out, she is cheating on you. A dating might desire to be geared up on honesty and have faith, you gave her lots and he or she ignored it. You truthfully deserve greater effective, so think of long and not user-friendly approximately what you like. do you like to proceed being taken for a fool? Or wreck up along with her and end this one way dating and sometime discover somebody greater deserving of your love? i desire which you will make the properly suited decision interior the tip, stable success.
2016-12-11 04:55:55
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answered by ? 3
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hay, I'll tell u how,it's not when u find another one then u'll forget the first one, it's when u think of how did he hurt u then ur heart won't feel the same way toward him, it's the black side in ur hurt which will get u away from him, think of how much u r hurt from the inside cos of him , and how ur heart should never forgive him and that life goes on if u r studying or working then think of ur career and ur future, think of someone who will care about u and respect u more than that one, think of ur friends and all da people who loves u, pure ur self from all what vatiates it, try to be strong to strenghten ur personality, to help u face ur sadness... i had the same situation of u, but i got through it, if u need help, i'm here...
2006-08-01 21:02:02
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answered by Anonymous
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im trying to forget him but ur question remembering him.im suffering from same situation.i loved him ,we had been together 4 more then 3 years but he cheated me.its so pain ful.i didnt go outside with him but i want to marry him to start a beautiful life with husband and children.he was the only 1 in my life but he is a cheater n flirt.wht should i do?
2006-08-01 21:04:01
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answered by good luck 2
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let her go you may have luved her but you deserve better make a friend keep it slow the best ones are friends first like me we are together after 11 years still best friends.
2006-08-01 20:48:24
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answered by babygavine 2
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just think of the feeling you felt when you found out. it will keep your anger hate her, and that hate will make you forget about her.. and then time will then heal your wound, for the time being
enjoy yourself with the company of others or with sweet solitude.
2006-08-01 20:47:52
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answered by E 3
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time is the best way. another girl also helps (but is hard and takes... once again... time)
2006-08-01 20:46:32
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answered by BEEFSHIELD 3
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find another one. you will sure forget the earlier one.
2006-08-01 20:44:15
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answered by yogesh 6
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self-esteem training
2006-08-01 21:27:25
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answered by jimrich 7
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