I'm 13 year old girl. Everybody I know thinks I have anorexia, probably it's true. I see myself as an ugly person which is fat and which doesn't cost a thing. My parents are soooooooo worried. They keep taking me to doctors, they want me to become "normal".I have depressions all the time. I was thinking once that maybe I should kill myself, but I didn't, and I don't know why I didn't make that decision. My life is horrible, I mean my "in my head" life. Everything outside me is perfect. People tell me I'm pretty and skinny, but I don't believe them, I just thing they are lieing to me! It makes me even more miserable, I'm crying all the time, I can't do this anymore. I have dreams that will never come true. I want to be a model, but I know I'm too ugly for it. And I will always be , then waht's the reason to live?! I don't have one. I don't know what to do. And the worst thing why I thing that about myself is because I've never had a boyfriend. Guys think I'm too ugly and too fat!
2006-08-01 20:22:56 · 13 answers · asked by sexy bitch 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I met a guy in school which i really like. He is popular and I'm kinda a loser. He is hott and I"m ugly pig. He'll never like me. He keeps staring at me and I think it's because I'm ugly, but peole tell me i't's because he like me. lies again!!!!!!!!!!!
He think's I'm just an ugly looser to make fun of. :( i DO want to finish my life, kill myself
2006-08-01 20:25:11 · update #1
I'm thinking that I made the decision to finish it all.
2006-08-01 20:25:30 · update #2
Being thirteen years old is rough on everybody. I would say that the first thing to do would be to talk to a parent or another trusted adult about your feelings right away. Know that everything you're feeling now will change dramatically later on, probably very soon. It sounds as if you realize that your feelings are not healthy and have much less to do with the world around you than with your own emotional turmoil. Just the fact that you're writing this post says that you still have a drive to live inside you and are reaching out for help. There are hotlines you can call and probably find the number for online to talk to someone about how you're feeling that can refer you to a better resource to help you cope with your situation. These hotlines exist to help people just like you. Whatever you do, don't do something you can never take back. You have a long life ahead of you and many things will change. Just because you haven't had a boyfriend at your age doesn't mean anything. Most people don't date until they're at least sixteen or so. I would say to call the suicide prevention hotline 1-800-SUICIDE and they will talk to you and try to help you work through your feelings. Pray hard and know that many people care about you and would miss you if you were to go, especially your parents. Realize that ending your life is a very selfish act. Good luck with working through these problems. I know that you have the strength to do so. God bless you.
2006-08-01 20:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the issues on step at a time. Put the anorexia problem on hold for now. Your depression seems to be the thing you need to focus on.
Tell the boy that if he's interested, he'll have to wait until you get over some personal issues. If he's a good guy, he'll wait.
Then ask your parents to get some help for you. Getting professional help SHOULD NOT discourage you; instead it should make you feel better. You will know that YOU were the person responsible for starting the healing process. You should feel good about that.
Please do this. Because you were born, you know you're worth keeping around. God, or whoever or whatever you may believe in, wouldn't have brought you into this world if you were going to leave so early.
Just remember to take one thing at a time. If in the end, you lose the guy or still have some Anorexic problems (while NOT a good thing) you will still be here. And THAT is the BEST thing you can do for you.
2006-08-02 03:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by amg503 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hard thing to do is live death is so simple and final as one who hasn't even explored any of lives wonders . it's so simple and you don't have to answer to any one , or do you I'm an atheist and I would not take my life not because I'm afraid but because it's the waste of live and that is sad it's a gift and I've seen it squandered in buttoads ever seen 10 sun rises in a row , no I'll bet you haven't not one the same and the smile on a child's face at X-mass no probably not so go take the weak way out your family and Friends are the only ones that will miss you in fact go on end it coward
2006-08-02 03:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... I can't possibly say what you want or need to hear on this in words... why would you choose this path? There are so many to pick from. Maybe you haven't SEEN the options available to you. Can I help you?
and for christ's sake, dont ask this audience such a question... you'll more likely have more people telling you to go ahead and kill yourself for their own amusement.
2006-08-02 03:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've struggled w/anorexia since high school. i'm 28 now. i'm 4'10 and 95 lbs. it's taken a long time for me to be okay w/myself. you need to get help or talk to someone. you could do some major damage to your insides if you dont' take care of yourself. lemme put it to you this way, if you don't eat, you won't get enough nutrition. if you don't get enough nutrition your body grabs it from whatever you have on your body; your hair will get stringy, your face will get sunken in, you'll look like a skeleton. And you won't look any better if you're dead. it's not about your weight and all about what's going on in your head. go talk to someone.
2006-08-02 03:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg your sooooooo vain, what a big turn-off, why can't you just be yourself, stop looking at all the FAKE models in the magazine ads and trying to copy their look
2006-08-02 03:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by DodgerBlueFan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai!my sister.from ur question it really seems that ur a very cute but at the same time a very serious girl.and the boy u talked abt if he doesnot like u.dont worry i am not very bad looking.i will be always with u ..........with my sister.......love u.u can contact me at debjyoti_pinka@yahoo.co.in
2006-08-02 03:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by debjyoti_pinka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person stared at u mean he want u to go near him...
2006-08-02 03:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself and forget about what people think because if they see you insecure they will just feed off it.
2006-08-02 03:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read about 2 sentences of your details, and i think its safe to say that you need professional help
2006-08-02 03:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋