I'm married now but most women feel threatened by me when their men talk to me. I know I'm pretty but I don't flirt with them. Sometimes the guy will say something to me but I make it clear that I love my husband and have no intention of being with another man. Ever. But yet the women get angry with me when it's their men that they should be talking to. Why do women do this to me?
2006-08-01 19:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That Women Nature..don't worry as long as ur not doin anything wrong
2006-08-01 19:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think that you are giving this too much thought,How do you know the women feel threatened when their men talk to you? What women, get angry with you? Are these women strangers, friends or acquaintences? Women don't usually get angry for no reason, if you are just talking to the men, and not the women, the women willl be aware of that,and you probably are flirtiing,
I will tell you this, all you have to do is be noce to the women, friendly and avoid their husbands, (even if they start the conversation) YOU are a big girl, and you know how to conduct yourself like one, so why do you say the women are angry with you, and why do they do this to you......like you are being picked on,
No offense, but you sound like you are self centered,and by the way you described the whole scene, if could be your over active imagination, or you are doing something to create this,,
If you feel that all these women are angry with you, which i doubt, then maybe you should reassess your communication style, and spend more time talking to your hubby,, and try to make friends with the other wives.
2006-08-01 20:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just human nature. There really isn't anything you can do about it, except be pro-active. Start friendships with the women. Make them your priority. When their husbands talk to you, ask about their wives. Some men just think that pretty women are worth talking to, so they do. They don't think about how their wives will react, or maybe they do to get a rise out of them. You know what's going on. You can either keep on or change the circumstances. Good luck.
2006-08-01 19:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by kitty fresh & hissin' crew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, but I'll be the first one to tell you I'm not really that pretty. I'm not butt ugly, but I'm not pretty. Women are highly competitve creatures. We must win every 'game' we play. When we feel someone is moving closer to the finish line than ourselves, we like to reach out and grab them by the hair and pull them back out of our way, hopefully knocking over whoever might be right behind us at the same time. I'm sure it's all in our chemical makeup.
2006-08-01 19:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through the same thing. It's insecurity. Women have to be happy with who they are to be rid of it.........and some just can't be happy. I model, so I get this alot, it totally sucks, I am a very happy go lucky person, treat everyone the same, but the looks I get sometimes totally blows my mind!
2006-08-01 19:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its their men to blame.youo would behave the same if your husband talked to other women and you were with him.it could olso be thar u flirt back without knowing it.if your concious is free, forget about them they are just insecure i'm sure.
2006-08-01 20:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by leah c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you dress? What is and how much perfume do you wear? Do you playfully touch people while you talk to them?
Sometimes we flirt even when we don't know it.
2006-08-01 19:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity, not confident in themselves. when a woman is sure of herself she fears not what or who her man looks at. a man if he is one is gonna look. its normal. women look at men and they can be happy with who they have.
2006-08-01 20:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women are insecure and self conscious on the most part.
2006-08-01 19:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by MysteriousStranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have done this to me for forever...I just ignore them, why bother, if they are that jealous that their problem, not mine.
2006-08-01 20:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋