2006-08-01 19:49:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Work on your listening skills. It's hard to boss people around if you're carefully noting their interests, desires, and thoughts!
2006-08-01 19:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you wrote your profile last month you had two friends. Now you only have one. Pretty soon you may not have any at all. Here's what to do: When you have the urge to take charge, bite your tongue. You have to fight your natural urge to order people around (common in the middle child) and it will be a real battle. Ask your friends and family to tell you when you are being bossy. Make them see that you don't like who you are and that you are determined to change. Don't give up. You can do it if you try. And hey, you might even like the new you.
2006-08-01 19:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about what you are going to say before you say it. Self control is more important than pretty as you are finding out. Once you start listening, stop talking in haste and being bossy, more people will want to be your friend.
2006-08-01 19:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i have the same problem.i'm a pretty girl with like 2 girlfriends and like countless guy friends and that is because i have an attitude and i'm so bossy but hey atleast i get what i want usually at all times.well my advice for you is if you want to stop being so bossy then do it for yourself nobody else.if being so nice to people is not you then don't do it cause it's only going to make you unhappy.being bossy is your personality so if other people don't like it then there not important anyway.goodluck and amen to us bossy people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-01 20:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think ur pretty cause ur pretty and all girls are pretty smart beautiful in some or other manner its just that they are confused with advice comments other pass at them and they get emotional wen its their own friend who they care for ,u r not bossy its just u no not how to react in a pleasant manner .try being as a good listener then speak out ur point of view and ask the if you wer right in manner
2006-08-01 20:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by trevor c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so arrogant thinking you re the ish . Start respecting others and not being so bossy but don't be a pushover either .
2006-08-01 19:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by U gotta b kiddin me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their is nothing you can do you are you and if no one around you can accecpt that then thats their problem. think about it what female isnt bossy i know every girl can sing that song and if they say their not their lieing cause every girl is bossy in there own little way.
2006-08-01 19:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so egotistical and think before you say anything. If it sounds bossy in you head then it probably is.
2006-08-01 19:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen 2 kelis' "Bossy"one time and u will feel better
2006-08-01 19:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by KaNecia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax live life a moment at a time value people this world is a ***** to live in so its good to have those people that have your back,just give the best of your self without wondering if others do the same just want to be a better person everyday thats all you can do
good luck god bless
2006-08-01 19:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by maike j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋