i love kids. do u think its bad if i was to get pregnant on purpouse? im only 16.?

Answer 1

it would be Your loss and nobody else's!!!!
you can admire kids from afar, you don't have to have one. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. I would recommend, HIGHLY, that you wait

Answer 2

Give your damn head a shake

Go grab your local newspaper and read the WANT ADS..see what kind of jobs you can get without a high school diploma and what the pay rate is

Look in the RENTAL SECTIONS and find out how much it costs to rent a 2 bedroom apartment.

Grab the grocery store flyers and look at the price of food, toilet paper, shampoo and most importantly diapers and cases of formula.

Check into the cost of daycare for your child...how much is it going to cost to have someone else watch you child while you go and work for $3 at Walmart or McDonald's???

If you truly do love children you will wait until you have graduated from highschool and gotten a college or university diploma and have worked your way up the ladder for a few years and found an equally stable partner to either live with or marry so that the child will have all the benefits of two parents and won't have to grow up living in the ghetto with all the welfare creeps.

Answer 3

It's not bad to want to but it certainly isn't a good idea to do it. There is a lot more stuff involved in having a child. There is no dating, no senior prom, no cheer-leading, no nothing! As a child yourself, you need to just wait until you are older. Just get one of those life-like dolls. They make those dolls so they cry and have to be fed and changed and everything else but if you don't feel like messing with it you just throw it in the closet. If you have a "real" baby, there's no "throwing it in the closet" or anything. The cost of raising a child is out of this world now and it is so challenging! I have 4 children. I started at 18 and I wish I would have waited until I was at least in my 20's. My daughter had a child at 16. She finished school with honors and college with honors but she has done without so much! I don't mean just material stuff either. Please wait about doing something like that! The day will come when you really ARE ready. Right now you just think you're ready and you like the idea.

Answer 4

Wait until you are ready your body isn't even ready to carry a baby yet even though it is done! Don't screw the rest of your young years up by getting pregnant while you are in high school finish your education and go to college and get financially secure before you bring a child into this world because they are very expensive and at the age of 16 you would definately not be able to make enough money to support that child!! I have 2 kids and I am about to go back to school I am now 26 and I had my son when I was 18 I wish I had finished High School and went to college instead of getting pregnant and I loved kids at the time too but your best bet is to get a really good education and go to college and get yourself financially secure and have a good man in your life that will be there for your baby!!! PLEASE WAIT DON'T SCREW YOUR WHOLE LIFE UP!!

Answer 5

Yes , the worse thing you can do. You got your life to live and mature before a baby like your self takes care of another baby. Never get pregnant on purpose, it is not fair for the baby or the father . You are trapping him into something that you two will share the rest of your lifes. Whether your together or not. Please just go to the park etc and play with other children but do not do any thing stupid. Also baby sit ,that is what use to do, loved kids too. Pem

Answer 6

If you get pregnant right now, yes!

For your daughter's/son's sake and your own, you should wait until you have a commited husband, stable income, a home for the children, and a little more life expirience.

You aren't legaly an adult even now.
Children are nice (some say) but they are also very time consuming and you need to devote much of your life to teaching them, loving them, changing diapers/cleaning their messes, taking them places... You aren't ready yet. Kids cost money and time.

Remember, Mavis knows.. and knows you'll be a good mother when it is the -right- time!
:)
Have a good night/day/whatever, lol

Answer 7

Wow. I had that same thought when I was 16! You are So young, what BOY in your life would eb worth throwing your youth away? And what if he didn't stick around? Then what would you do? Drop out of school and work at a job for minimum wage? There is no need to rush. Be patient, enjoy your youth, and everything will come to you in due time. Trust me. I know from experience.

Answer 8

It is bad. You are at the beginning of your adult life. You will have so many choices that you can try if you wish. If you get Pregnant almost all you choices will be not for you but for the children.

Please wait enjoy yourself and see what life is like for a few more years. You will be surprised. After that make your choice. You will enjoy everything that much more including children. Wait

Answer 9

just get a job in a day care center. Don't get pregnant yet. Save up your money and wait until you can have a child without risk of premature birth.

It's unhealthy for you and the baby at this age. Even though it can and has been done, there is a higher risk of complications with the baby.

Answer 10

Its not reccomended, but it isnt the worst thing somebody has ever done in the history of man.

Why dont you try to wait until you are at least 18, or until you at least have the financial capacity to take care of your child by yourself, with no one elses help?

See how you take care of a pet for now, until youre 18. Then when you are 18, you'll be an adult and no one can tell you anything about your choice to have kids or not.

Answer 11

Not only bad as a social responsible citizen , you will loose your good health for ever and will not enjoy life the way one normal human being supposed to . Better wait for another , at least for two and half years to become strong enough to bear this burden and fulfill your ambition . May Almighty guide you in the right direction .