i am 27yrs old and have been married for 7 yrs now, it was an arranged marriage..
some time back i started this affair with this guy who is 24yrs old now.. we used to be friends for 3 yrs untill one day we realised we were attracted 2 each other.. we started this relationship & it kept going deeper.. it was like i could not live without him.. Then suddely he got notice that he had to shif to another city regarding his work 2 mths back.. he left.. but before that we got married in a temple so that our love would not be incomplete.. we r always in touch & talk daily.. but.. there r many probs that r in our way..
1st of all my family (parents & siblings) depends totally on my husband, so i cant get out of this marriage.
2ndly my bf is just working & barely supports himself.
3rdly even if i thot of living with my bf.. his parents would disown him, he would never want this to happen.
we r both from orthodox hindu families..
is our relationship just an EMA
wat advice do u have?
2006-08-01 19:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
p.s. i am from india
i have got no kids yet,
ya i got married 2 my bf in a temple.. it does not require legal documents.
2006-08-01 19:47:25 · update #1
you need a shrink.
2006-08-01 19:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by why do i? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! No matter how you feel about this other guy, you are married and that makes it an affair, which is against the laws of marriage. Unless you plan to divorce your husband, there is nothing you can do about that, even if your love for him is real. If you were to get divorced, I would suggest that you do not marry this guy. His family would disown him and he may regret you for that one day and he can barely support himself. Money may not be everything, but it's necessary and he needs time to grow and be more responsible before trying to support a wife.
2006-08-02 02:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this look like the dating category???? I didnt come on Polls & Surveys to hear people's problems on love life. You'll get more help if you put your question in the right category.
2006-08-02 02:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a perfect world, people should be able to have both a wife/husband and other lovers.
2006-08-02 02:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by peninsula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused... you married BOTH of the guys?
2006-08-02 02:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by ohsaxylady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents and see if they understand. if you really love this guy and not your husband you should be with the one you love...
2006-08-02 02:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by itsjustmecc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes to love someone you need to let them go.
2006-08-02 02:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋