My boyfriend and I were together 6 months when we had an oops! Our son is now 8 months old. He cheated on me 3 months ago and I have sucked up my hurt and pride and never said a negative word against him to save our friendship for our sons sake. He is young and has never done anything like this before. When I moved out, I only moved a few buildings away (we live in apartments) but since neither of us could afford being single parents we moved into a 3 bedroom house so each of us has our own room and we split everything equally. He is soooo confused on his feelings. Some days he is civil and friendly, some days he is the same man I used to love, others he is cross and acts like a total stranger... I don't know how to act around him....HELP!
2006-08-01 19:25:21 · 2 answers · asked by Ancient Forever Lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok sit him down.
talk to him.
figure out what the hell is going on with your relationship
you two are the only ones who are able to answer that question.
2006-08-01 19:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dangerous situation. I know it's probabl cheaper to raise your child as a couple but if you don't love each other anymore, you really shouldn't be living together. it's not healthy for you or for your baby. he will grow up feeling the tension between you too and hearing the fights and arguments and he'll think that's the way a health relationship is supposed to be (I know because that's what my parents were like for most of my life and I've had a load of problems with love for a long time until my current boyfriend taught me what true love really is.) and you two will just start resenting each other, so I suggest moving in with your parents or with a friend for a while so that you can minimize expenses and have him send you child support because no financial issues are worth the emotional damage that might occur.
2006-08-02 02:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by MysteriousStranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋