Yes, i made him live with me..Been a week already.We packed secretly and left home. We been together for 2 years. He claimed divorce is a long process, and want me to wait, But i cant stand it that he living with his wife, even if he claim there nothing going on with them.He just needed a roof over his head. So i give him a option, we provide a roof for ourselves, if he cant do it. Dont ever find me again. He came up with lies to his family, that he need to hide away for sometimes, but he will still go back visit his children. You may think his wife is naive to believe, but i think she trying hard to win him back therefore she didnt pick quarrel with him. Will this last long? Who will he pick? Will married men really leave their wives for other women?
2006-08-01 18:32:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He'll go back home to his wife and kids.
You should be ashamed of yourself.
Leave married men alone.
2006-08-01 18:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it rather disheartening that several have used the "why buy the milk" analogy. Honestly, that places on women the distinction that all they are worth is a good lay now and then and I just disagree with that. I think the live in situation is a little more complex than that, personally. I know a lot of people that have done the living together and getting married later and others that went straight to being married. It is just whatever worked for them. In one case, they just didn't have much money so they spent a few years finishing their degrees and saving money. They had a small ceremony that cost them only about $500 in all and the money they had saved over the 4 years of living together went into a nice down payment on a house. Every couple I know is different and they all have their reasons for not rushing to get married. Most of my friends that hurried up to get married are now divorced or in the process of it. I know this is not at all scientific, just observation from those around me.
2016-03-16 11:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be part of his adultery game, then you must abide by the rules and regulations. Always remember that you are the third party involved. You are the bad guy. If he really divorce his wife and marry you, do you have the guarantee that he won't treat you the way he treated his wife? He can still go for another woman the next time. So if you do truly love him, and want to be with him and want to have a status, then I am sorry to say that it won't happen. Even if it will happen, you will be living in fear and worry in the future. If you just want to cohabitate, by all means go ahead. No point threatening him to leave his wife and be with you. Appreciate what you have with him together at the moment.
2006-08-01 22:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This thing has been happening over the lifetime of mankind......
single woman is used by married man who says he will leave wife, but he never does.
He is using you. What is it about you that his betrayal do you like the best? That he lies to his wife and children? That he lies to you. And what happens if one in a million chance he does leave her and marrys you, the changes of him being faithful to you are slim to none that he will have a girlfriend or girlfriends on the side.
Wat makes you think that he will ever be true to anyone woman let alone you? You will spend a lifetime alone on holidays and you will never be first with him. You ask , who will he pick? He has already picked the wife and chldren. You are nothing but an after thought. You are his piece on the side. Do married men leave their wives......nah. If he wanted to leave her he would of done so then found a gf. Instead he is married and keeps making promises to you. Hon, this isn't love.....this is you thinking you don't deserve the best. This is you so desprite that you give your heart and body to a man who is playing you for a fool. If he lies to his family you better bet he lies to you.
Divorice is NOT that long of a process. If he were in the midst of divorice then he couldn be able to be seen with you in public or take you on a trip or dinner with his children or other people in his family.
You are worthy of having a man of your own.
Contact me ok? We can talk more. ok
2006-08-01 18:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is just playing with you...how long can be a divorce process? The most is take 3 years if separated. If he sincere to live with you, he won't have to lie to his family, this only shown that he want to keep his family, at the same time "play" the game with you. Stop wasting your youth on him, this man won't give you happiness even if he really married you, as he will leave you for another woman again.
2006-08-01 18:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man has too much baggage. It won't work because he won't even start the divorce process. Some married men leave their wives for other women and it sometimes works, but why take the chance of this happening to you. He's a cheater and you're making it very easy for him. Let him go.
2006-08-01 18:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he wont sorry. but if he truly wanted to leave her he wouldnt be hiding things from her. I could be wrong but if he cared for you like you do for him he would just stand up for his feeling. and claim you as his true love. I know its difficult when kids are involved but in this situation i would step aside for the moment until he Had his life straight for your well being and the children. I was child who's father did the same thing and it can only explode if you don't watch you step. good luck and i hope it works out.
2006-08-01 18:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing with a married man? i mean if they weren't living together but were still going through the divorce then it might be okay but a married man?
2006-08-01 18:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by ex-junkie in blinding love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth are you doing? Why are you still with him? You are at the losing end honey, because its pretty obvious he wants you and his wife. From the look of things he has no intention whatsoever of giving up his family for you. Back away and find someone who is NOT married.
2006-08-01 22:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I dont know what he will do or have a plan in his mind.You should feel what is truth and what you should do for keeping ur relationship.Did he told you that he can leave his wife for you? If so the you can wait.I f you have no faith on him that means you didt love him.Love is based on believe as there is no legal bondage between the two.
2006-08-01 18:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋