My boyfriend tell me he loves me but he rarely calls and rite now he says he cant come see me cuz he's under house arrest (he just got out of jaill) but its funny cuz he can go other places but cant come see me i think he is cheating. If you really love someone wouldnt you wnat to talk to the on a regular basis.
IM me your suggestions on what i should do
ARIESBABY248
2006-08-01 18:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by ariesbaby248 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HE IS NOT A CONVICTED FELON HIS CHARGES WAS DROPED
2006-08-01 18:40:33 · update #1
actions speak louder than words DUHHH
2006-08-01 18:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ariesbaby, I'm going to be blunt with you: you can do better than dating a convicted felon. There, it's out, I said it. If I were you, I'd break it off with this guy for a number of reasons. I agree, if you really love someone, you should want to talk to them on a very regular basis.
That he does not talk to you on a regular basis tells me that he doesn't value you as much as he should. And if you are dating a convicted felon, maybe you don't value yourself enough. Sorry, I know that's blunt, but there it is. Think about it. It's not meant as an insult, just to let you know that if you're young and intelligent and a good person, you don't have to settle for dating a felon.
Yes, it does sound like he's possibly cheating. Did you stop to consider that maybe he's up to his illegal activities again? I'd be very leary of being around this guy. The last thing you want is to be an accessory to a crime, nor do you want to be caught for harboring a fugitive. Don't let his poor life management skills bog you down.
Think long and hard on that classic Ann Landers question, "Would I be better off with him or without him?" Make a pro and con list. He's already a con, and that to me is a big red flag. Good luck to you.
Cheers, K
2006-08-01 18:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl, but one, if he was in jail, maybe it isnt such a great idea for you to be with him. honest truth, but maybe im wrong.
two, if he's under house arrest, how come he cant come see you?!
the situation is too sketchy, and girl that isnt love. theres probably someone so much better out there waiting for you who really will show you what true love is!
look, if ive learned anything, love is just a word until someone acts on it. i know that now :)
you deserve so much better than that!
2006-08-01 18:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same suitation as u had for a year. Action tells everything. Everybody can say he loves you. But u can sense that from his action. You know the answer when you need to ask this question.
Answer: He doesn't love u enough.
2006-08-01 18:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sorry i don't have to time to IM you but i think you should talk to him and if he doesn't talk..... just ignore him because I don't think guys should be like that and if they don't talk they deserve to be ignored. Well thats all I gotta say. If yah have anymore questions tell me.. cause I have alot of friends to help you get advice and I can also help too. My answer wasn't that good but I'm trying my best beacause I haven't done this 4 a long time! well ttyl! bye
2006-08-01 18:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by kaysh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋